I dnt think I can have an orgasm :(
i cna only have one if I masterbate but
not if my boyfriend touchs me :( help me
please
i dnt no whats wrong with me :(
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rae_06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 219 Location: Iowa
Posted: 08-05-05 14:32pm
I have the same problem. Im pregnant and
I still cant even have an orgasm...Not
saying pregnancy should make me have an
orgasm....Ive been sexually active since I
was 12 and right now I am 17 and my bf is
21. The only time I have an orgasm is
when I masterbate too....It sux! I
know..We try and try but nothing ever
works.
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abbymae
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Apr 2005 Posts: 20
Posted: 08-06-05 07:57am
Yep....You are definately not alone. I
can agree with both of you. I have tons
of fun on my own but it's like when a male
steps into the room....Nope - nothing! I
obviously have no suggestions because I
have never had an orgasm while intimate
with another. You are not alone!
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shortie02
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 74
O Or Not? Posted: 08-12-05 17:02pm
I'm not sure if I get an orgasm or not.
Sometimes, my guy will finger me and
suddenly i'll breathe out a couple of
times, hold my breath, and push down, and
then it'll subside and I feel really
intimate with him afterwards. I also
sweat on my sides and between the legs.
Is that an orgasm? I can't say I know
much about masterbation, though. I don't
like when he touches my clit or folds - is
that normal?? Thx!
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 08-12-05 18:34pm
rae_06
wrote:
i have the same problem.
Im pregnant and I still cant even have an
orgasm...Not saying pregnancy should make
me have an orgasm....Ive been sexually
active since I was 12 and right now I am
17 and my bf is 21. The only time I have
an orgasm is when I masterbate too....It
sux! I know..We try and try but nothing
ever works.
hi rae how you doin??
Hows that baby.??
I think you girls may not be able to
relax around them, I know I used to have
a problem with it too. But I know with
me I had to be with my husband--who I knew
for awhile and who I could relax around.
Then all I got was oral or clitorial
stimulation. With my second
husband...Let me tell you...Quite
different all together. I am very
difficult to bring to orgasm
anyway--without relaxation, without
concentration forget it. Although I knew
how to take care of myself from a very
young age.
When it was a one night stand or new
person---no way not ever no kinda way. I
couldnt relax, not with a stranger, or
someone I couldnt feel comfortable with.
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Glamorgirli
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 193 Location: Michigan
Posted: 08-15-05 00:22am
I agree with fatfamily02 you are never
gonig to have an orgasm if you don't
relax!!! And trust me you will all know
when you do orgasm it's wonderful!! I
have been with 4 guys and only 1 out of
the 4 (my current bf) have made me orgasm,
and my conculsion is that those other guys
made me feel so uncomfotable I was to
worried about how I look and stuff to them
that I didnt relax! Find a guy you can
actually be yourself in front of and not
care about how you look, then you will
have the most fun
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blindedeyes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2005 Posts: 1 Location: hollywood,fl
Same Here Posted: 08-15-05 01:22am
This is my problem to, I havent ever had
an orgasm in my life, I am 15 and I have
been active since I was 14 its ridiculous
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Glamorgirli
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 193 Location: Michigan
Re: Same Here Posted: 08-15-05 09:07am
blindedeyes
wrote:
this is my problem to, I
havent ever had an orgasm in my life, I am
15 and I have been active since I was 14
its
ridiculous
not to be a health forum or to sound like
your mother but, I think your a bit to
young to be having sex! Really I say stay
away from it for a little bit longer. Sex
can come with many consequences. You dont
want to be pregnant by the time your 16 do
you?? Plus it's very emotional; there are
a ton of guys out there that will just use
you than leave you, and you'll be left
with the mental pain. I dont want you to
go through the heartbreak this early.
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sxcgirl_me
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 372 Location: Sydney - Australia
Posted: 08-23-05 02:42am
You know what,
i sort of agree with glamour girl
i lost my virginity when i'd only just
turned 14 with a guy who was 14.
Let me tell you, as soon as we had sex, he
was gone in a flash, I never saw him
again.
But then when I was 15 I met my first
love, and I waited quite awhile before I
did anything with him, which made it all
the more better!!!!!!
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xPlum_Faeriex
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Markse, Cleveland
Posted: 08-28-05 02:53am
I kinda dont agree. Ive been with my
boyfriend for 2 years an im only 15 and we
have sex. We have fun and he isnt using
me, you just have to find the right
person. You cant judge someone on there
age, love is what you make it. Its not
dependalbe on how old you are.
