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alelli

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Unplanned Pregancy
Posted: 08-05-05 23:42pm

I maybe pregant. Because I had unprotected sex, by this timemi must have my period but iam delayed.. I bought a pregacy test but im not quite sure if it is negative or positive.How would I know if im pregnant?
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mamaslyfe

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Posted: 08-05-05 23:45pm

I think it's best to go to your doctor, or a clinic to have a pregnancy test done, then if you have any questions or concerns, you don't have to turn to a little cardboard box for answers. In my experience you can tell you are pregnant. It was just a feeling for me, can't explain it...
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alelli

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Unplanned Pregancy
Posted: 08-05-05 23:49pm

Is it some sort of gut feeling? But im scared to talk to my doctor. Iam still a stident and have my resposibilities as a student. How about my boyfried? What should we do? Is it better if I get this aborted if it is really positive?And what are the efeects of abortion?
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seksiHily

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Posted: 08-06-05 09:03am

I cant decide for *you* what is best for *you* but i'd take another test before worrying about that.
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juda

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Posted: 08-06-05 09:09am

Hey well your young and life can get extremly difficult when you have a child.. Right now you still have the option to have an abortion and in a personal opinion I think you should take it.. I know how it sounds but having a child at a young age can be destructive. Not just to your body but to your life and your relationship.. The biggest aspect of effects of abortion are phycological, at this stage the abortion is just making you have a period. But in your mind youll allway think of "what if" I had that child.. Im about to be a mother of 2 and I love my babies but life isnt easy.
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alelli

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I Know It Is Really Difficult
Posted: 08-09-05 07:25am

My boyfrend doesnt want me to get this aborted also his frends..
So ive decided not to..But my problem is my boyfrends parents wouldnt let me see him.. They'll take him away from me.. What will I do?
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lil_blaze2004

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Posted: 08-09-05 07:58am

How old are you guys? Will his parents take your boyfriend away or the baby? I don't understand. They can't take your child and your boyfriend will be allowed to see you and the child. Well I don't know how diff it is in the philippines but in north america the parents have rights.
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alelli

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Posted: 08-09-05 08:14am

Hey also have the rigth to take my boyfrend away..
Im talking about them taking my boyfrend away from me..
:cry: I dont know what to do..But we decided to go away from home..Build a new life and start something new... I know that it is hard but time will come and everything will be alright..
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lil_blaze2004

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Posted: 08-09-05 08:50am

Unless you guys are really young they don;t have the right to taske your boyfriend away. Especially if you guys are having a baby together. Good luck in whatever you do.
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