Here is my problem. I am 8months pregnant
plus bypolor you do the math. For a while
now me and my husband have been doing some
serious fighting over stuff like porn,
girls, parents, job and so on... I am
really starting to give up on my marriage.
I love the man I swear I do and would do
anything for him that is the whole point
of this.
I cant take the fighting anymore. It
seems everyday one of us is really getting
hurt. I have tried to fix everything he
says to but I am not there yet. So I am
seeing a theripest for it now. I have
asked him to change stuff for the
bettering of our marriage and he says he
wouldn't do anything that would hurt our
marriage but yet he wont change a dang
thing. In fact he ask for all that stuff
when ever I am in a good mood and so he
gets it.
I just don't understand anymore I am tired
of being hurt like this.
Is anyone else in my shoes? Please I need
advice before its to late.
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mmckenzie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Aug 2005 Posts: 6
Posted: 08-06-05 23:55pm
If you are married or in a committed
relationship-it is not your problem to
fix. Your marriage(relationship) is an
effort on your part as much as his. He
has just as much responsibility in the
problems as you do. If he doesn't see
that-or won't see it, it's already too
late! Your problem is his problem!
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Keehiaangel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2005 Posts: 184
? Posted: 08-07-05 00:23am
I understand I have tried to make him
understand but he just dosn't and I don't
know if he ever will. I am just so tired
of this same thing day after day. Today
we talked about it for along time and he
said that it was my bypolor. So maybe he
is right
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mmckenzie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Aug 2005 Posts: 6
Posted: 08-10-05 13:15pm
Maybe you should talk to him about
counselling, for you and for the two of
you together. It might help! I hope
things get better for you!
