Hi my names sarah and i'm a new member
here and i'm 14 and 2.5 months pregant.
In september I was with some friends and
the guy I liked and they were all drinking
and I said I didnt want to and when I
wasnt looking they spiked my slushie and I
couldnt taste it. Later that when I was
really really drunk the guy I liked and I
had sex....He told me he was using a
condom and the next morning he still told
me that he used a condom but I could tell
by the look on his face something was
wrong. I asked him what was wrong and he
started crying and he said that the condom
had broke....And he noticed it when he was
throwing it in the garbage cuz the cum was
dripping out of the little hole and he was
too scared to tell me. But we are now
going out and he's totaly fine with being
the daddy of my baby cuz he knows that it
was an accident that it happend and he's
not the kind of guy to leave a girl when
she's in need...I have lots of support
from my friends (both my parents died in a
car crash and my other family lives across
the world in england) but I would liek
support from some people who are pregnant
or had a kid when a teenager.....Thanks!
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glitter8370
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2003 Posts: 135 Location: bc canada
Posted: 11-22-03 22:41pm
Hey
hey I am 16 years old and almost 34 weeks
pregnant. Congrats so exactly how many
weeks r u ? Do u know when ur due date
is? Get back
Welcome to our family. We have a great
support group here!
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 11-23-03 10:06am
Hey hey im 14 and im 23 weeks pregnant
with my son. I'm pregnant bcuz of a
busted condom too! Lmao. I will never
trust those things again! Lol. But yeah,
I support ya! It aint easy having to
deal with the rude comments but just hold
ur head up and be damn proud to be carryin
ur own lil miracle! Lol chances are, a
lot of ppl will act very immature. I have
slept with 2 guys right, and the very well
known town trash thinks its funny to call
me a prostitute. I asked her am I a
prostitute bcuz ive had sum? That just
makes u inexperienced. That got to her.
Lol. And she said sumthin like no, ur a
prostitute cuz ur pregnant, and im like o
ok ur cool. Lol. She is callin every
girl who ever had a baby young, or is
pregnant at a young age, a prostitute.
Lmao. I would luv to beat her up. (not
until after my josh is born tho) but yeah
I went over to her house to confront her,
askin if she wanted to say that to my
face, and shes like no, I didnt say that,
I was j/k, this girl made me do it, blah
blah blah. Ppl r so lame. Then she
turned around and told my best friend that
she called me a prostitute to my face and
was ready to beat me up. Ok. Yeah. I
might be quite thin, (not so much now ne
more, lol) but I am still twice this girls
size and ive beat her up b4, so she knows
I can do serious damage to her sorry ass.
Lol. Y r people so idiotic? Do they just
push, hopin ull beat them silly? Lol
sorry way off subject I just thought it
was funny and thats just how ppl our age
r. Lol. Pm me if u wanna talk. Also, my
new aim sn is joshuasmommy321 and my yahoo
is sneakyfreakygrl. I'm here if ya need
me!
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 11-23-03 11:32am
Hey sweetie!! Welcome to our family! The
girls here are really great!!! Im 17 and
17 weeks and 1 day pregnant! I go for my
next appt. This coming tuesday to find
out what it is!! How old is ur b/f?? Im
really glad he is still with you! Alot of
guys wouldnt have stuck around after a one
night stand kinda thing like that! Im
pregnant b/c of the same reason too!!! So
I know where u are coming from!!! Im
really happy you got a lot of support !!!
You will be a great mommy!!! Do u live on
your own?? Who do you live with?? Are u
still in school?? Well if u ever wanna
talk you can pm me
Hope to here from u soon! Much love and
god bless!!
Jen
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YoungnExpectingBaby 2
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Nov 2003 Posts: 29
Posted: 11-23-03 12:56pm
Hi! My name is kallie, I have a 9 month
old daughter named leilani kristine and
currently 23 weeks pregnant with my
second, a baby boy, who we are planning on
naming javen wyatt. I first became
pregnant with leilani at 15, had her at 16
and less than 4 months later became
pregnant again with this one! Its hard
being a teen mother, but you can manage!
I am a waitress right now and live with
my boyfriend brett and his parents. I
have several pieces of advice,
1) don't drop out! There is no point!
You won't make anything of yourself if
you do!
2) use a warm cloth for teething and do
not use ambosal! It makes the gums like
rubber and its harder for them to come
through, making a crankier baby and it
takes longer for them to come in!
3) when your baby cries in the middle of
the night, swaddle and sooth them the same
way you did when they were in the womb.
While your pregnant you find yourself
rubbing, talking and singing to your baby,
well they hear all of that and it soothed
them so when they are born they expect the
same thing.
4) when he or she takes their first steps
don't scream! Lol sounds dumb, but when
leilani started walking I screamed 'oh my
god' and she fell down and started crying!
Lol
5) if your not breastfeeding get a bottle
that has a vent so that the air flows
out!
Ok I will stop smothering you with all of
this!
~**~kallie~**~
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sk8er_mom77
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2003 Posts: 4 Location: Canada
Posted: 11-23-03 13:44pm
Ok...First things first lol....My
boyfriend (father of baby) is 16 turning
17 in january, I dont live on my own....I
live my boyfriend and his parents, I am
still in school but its not so bad becuase
I go to continueing education cuz I failed
1 class last year, and its sooo great to
know that I have so much support from all
of you.....If you want to stay in contact
with me pm me
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raverbaby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 55 Location: P.A
Posted: 11-24-03 09:03am
I'm 17 with a 11 month old and her father
and me had the same problem condom broke.
Never again condoms just don't help. I
still have family support and its great
you do to cause it makes it easier knowing
that. Congrats you'll do great. When
your child starts walkin buy a crush
helmet lol... Cause my daughter bruise
her head some of the time cause she losses
her balance.
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 11-24-03 09:22am
Hello & welcome sarah,
well done 4 being mature about this &
going through with it all.Im sorry 2 hear
abaout ur parents-im sure you'll do them
proud.
Love liz............On the other side of
the world.......England!!
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 11-24-03 09:38am
well well, welcome
to the boards I am glad to see that the
girls have introduced thereselves and that
you are making yourself comfty..*hands you
a chair**and a blanket*. I am 16 years
old, on the 6th of december, and I have a
7 month old son, as of yesterday. I am
still in school and I am still with my
boyfriend. I live in pennsylvania, and I
am here to help you out when you need
me!!
Loads of love, laughter and joy!
Stacie
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Alexa
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2003 Posts: 101
Posted: 11-25-03 15:55pm
Hi and welcome hun!! It's great that he's
staying with you!! Well my name is
yasmin,i'm 15 yrs.Old and I am with my
boyfriend of 7 months jr.I don't have any
babies and I don't plan to either so i'm
having safe sex!! Best wishes and good
luck with your pregnancy!!
well well, welcome
to the boards I am glad to see that the
girls have introduced thereselves and that
you are making yourself comfty..*hands you
a chair**and a blanket*. I am 16 years
old, on the 6th of december, and I have a
7 month old son, as of yesterday. I am
still in school and I am still with my
boyfriend. I live in pennsylvania, and I
am here to help you out when you need
me!!
