Awhile back my boyfriend "popped my
cherry" during oral sex. Now he's telling
me that because he did so, I am no longer
a virgin...Is that true?!?
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
Posted: 08-06-05 22:42pm
How the heck did he pop it during oral
sex?????? I dont know how thats possible.
You must be penetrated to lose virginity.
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shortiipie
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Joined: 06 Aug 2005 Posts: 15 Location: virginia beach, virginia
Posted: 08-06-05 22:52pm
I know it sounds odd but he was fingering
me really hard and streching me out and I
started bleeding and it happened 2 more
times after that, and then from there on
whenever he fingers me I dont bleed
anymore and he told me that he "popped my
cherry"...
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mommy of 1
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Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
Posted: 08-06-05 22:58pm
Nope still a virgin. My husband agrees
too lol
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shortiipie
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Joined: 06 Aug 2005 Posts: 15 Location: virginia beach, virginia
Posted: 08-06-05 23:03pm
Lol thanks...My virginity means a lil
something to me, its kind of just a
religious thing I guess...But I still feel
bad sometimes about the other things I do
such as oral sex...
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
Posted: 08-06-05 23:06pm
Just tellthat boy to keep it in his pants
lol, how old are you? Just curious, not
going to lecture :)
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shortiipie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Aug 2005 Posts: 15 Location: virginia beach, virginia
Posted: 08-06-05 23:08pm
Im 16 and so is he, im going to be a
junior in high school this coming year...I
have done certain things w/ other guys,
but it was always me pleasing them because
I never really wanted it. So hes
basically the first guy thats given me
oral pleasure and the first guy I have
been comfortable around...
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mommy of 1
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Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
Posted: 08-06-05 23:14pm
Well its about time a guy did something
for you lol, I dont think oral is a bad or
dirty thing to do as long as you know he
is clean, sometimes its better than
sex!!!!!!!!
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shortiipie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Aug 2005 Posts: 15 Location: virginia beach, virginia
Posted: 08-06-05 23:18pm
He knows hes clean...We were about to have
sex and he has many times before w/ his
past 2 girlfriends and he already knew he
was clean but he went and got tested just
to make me happy...
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
Posted: 08-06-05 23:19pm
Well thats good, just be sure to use bc
when you decide to go for it
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shortiipie
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Joined: 06 Aug 2005 Posts: 15 Location: virginia beach, virginia
Posted: 08-06-05 23:23pm
Yea I know...Use a condom...I definately
wouldnt have sex w/out one...And I trust
my boyfriend a lot so its all good. Thank
you for your help, I appreciate it!
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
