I am going into my senior year of high
school and started having sex with my
girlfriend after a year of dating. We
have had sex many times. Now we are
really worried and loosing sleep. We fear
she may be pregnant! I like to believe
it's unlikely but she says "it's my body,
I can just feel it". Well it goes like
this, a few days after her period ended
(1-4 days, not sure) we had sex. We
always use spermicidal lubricant, don't
have rough sex, and I always am worred
about little unnoticable rips after
(that's another question, how common is
breaking and can you tell for sure or
could there be tiny hole?). Well a few
more days after that we fooled around
without sex one night and the next day,
quite rough with fingers so I think that's
what caused the problem. Maybe the
intense action in her vagina. The problem
was this so called "spotting", well I
don't even know if that's it. She bled an
hour after the fooling around once for
like 2 seconds and hurt a little went to
bed 2 or 3 hours later woke up and was
perfectlly fine. This is like 2 weeks
before her expected period by the way.
Now we are worried about this whole
implantation bleeding and possible
pregnancy.
Please help me! What do you think? She
is going to get a test but please help!
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 08-07-05 00:52am
If you only had sex the one time and it
was 1-4 days after her period then its
unlikey she is pregnant, espeically if you
used protection. Usually the most fertile
time for a girl is 14 days after the start
of her period, if she has a 28 day cycle.
Like I said I doubt shes pregnant but
anything is possible. Tell her not to
stress cause stress can delay her period
and take a test just to be sure. Good
luck.
