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inblissfuldaze

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Rough Sex?
Posted: 08-07-05 15:33pm

My boyfriend and I had rough sex, without a condom, and afterward, I noticed the very bottom of my vagina was in pain.
The next morning, I noticed the area at the bottom of my vagina was red and raw, almost like a cold sore...
Is it possible that he ripped the tissue of my vagina during sex?

Also, it burns when I pee, and I suspect that I have a "honeymoon cystitis" which is a bladder and urinary tract infection caused by frequent or prolonged sex (we sleep together every day, sometimes for 2 or more hours at a time).

Im wondering if my personal evaluation sounds reasonable,
and if anyone else has suffered either of these problems?
If so,

what can I do to stop the pain??? :cry: :cry:
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mommy of 1

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Posted: 08-07-05 17:56pm

Its normal to tear sometimes, I almost always tear during sex, it usually does not hurt but it will bleed :)
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x0x011

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Posted: 08-07-05 21:37pm

Just keep it clean so it heals easily without infection. If it really bothers you for god sakes take it easy for a while. No sex for one day isnt going to kill you. And go to the doc for antibiotics for uti. It can get worse if you dont stop it at the early stages, like travel up to your kidneys.
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mitbee

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Posted: 08-07-05 23:16pm

Well, that happened to me once or twice, and the only way it got better was to take a break from sex. But, you probably should be careful if you don't go pee after you have sex, because that can cause uti's. Sometimes you can catch it early enough and take cranberry pills & lots of water...But if it's too late for that, you should get some antibiotics.
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JasenG

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Posted: 08-10-05 11:41am

How big is your guy? What positions usually "rip" you?

I am about 7.75" and when my wife and I have missionary or "splitting the bamboo" style sex I can (and have) rip her. It happens when he bears down and rubs hard with his shaft upon the base of your vagina. Try having his position himself more forward or lean in a little. That should help change the angle of penetration.
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