Another Teen Problem

I know I prolly shouldnt be in here lol but idk I think u need to find a chick who can go more then 30 min... I love a guy who can last long...N dont get embarssed standen up with an erection its part of life =-) n alot of guys get erections after maken out...Don be ashamed just try to find a gurl who can last longer... N getten an erection after touchen or fondaling is normal to u just have a higher sex drive thats all but im a chick whos just like a guy with a high sex drive lol =-) well I hope I helped a lil take care hun

Well if you arent helpin doin the work, and just the chick is riding you for 30min. I can see how she gets tired, I know I would be, but thats why you need to switch off on taking control, and maybe you arent very relaxed and comfortble enough to really enjoy it, which means no climax because you arent exicted and into it. When your with a girl that your attracted to in one way or the other, and can relax and just enjoy the feeling im sure you can do it, and are you the one doing the "work" or are you just laying there letting the girl do it, if thats so, maybe shes not getting you in the position that would please you, if so don't be afraid to try different positions and see what you like, and you dont have to stick to one, change it around. Also another thing, if your using a condom some guys have issues with that, being that it kind of "numbs" the pleasure, my bf hates condoms, so I went on birth control, and we are both clean and have been together a long time so no worries, but I wouldnt suggest not wearing a condom if your with random chicks, but just think maybe you should look into different kinds of condoms? Obviously nothing is wrong with you because you are able to cum while masterbating so its all on getting it with the right position, chick, and feeling. Best of luck : )

Well ... I'm a woman, not a man, but I do know that i, for one, do like a guy that can last. Not a guy that lasts for 10 minutes. And, the majority of my friends are the same way. My boyfriend takes a while to ejaculate also. When we first started having sex, it took him around 45 minutes to an hour and a half. But now, its about 30 minutes. Get comfortable around a woman, and i'm sure it will be easier for you to ejaculate and whatnot. You probably just get sooo worried about ejaculating and you concentrate too hard. Just go with it. Dont worry about it. I'm sure you'll find a girl who understands and wont mind one tiny bit :wink: !!!

And I also have another question but this might sound stupid...

How long exactly does the pleasurable feeling for guys last exactly? I really dont get anything until about 10seconds before im about to ejaculate...Is this normal? Should I be getting more than this?

Sorry for the stupid questions, but I have never really up until now ever asked anything like this...Embarrassing topics ya know.

Thanks ahead,

Bn0827: some guys are simply a little less sensitive than others. This means that it could take a longer period of time for them to get off. The best advice I can give you is to mix it up. Try new and different positions. This will keep her from getting to tired and it will give you a chance to get off.

Ps2cho: as stated above; different guys have a different amount of sensativenss in their penis and therefore can last for a longer or shorter period of time. Additionally, guys may be turned on more or less by certain stimulation. Perhaps the stimulation your girlfriend is giving you is just so stimulating in your mind that you just can't hold back. Don't worry about; with time you will be better able to control your ejaculations.
In regards to your orgasm question, it is normal. I would recommend you look here:
http://www.Funnyjunk.C om/pages/orgasm.Htm
and remember... Your questions arn't stupid!

Hi all ,
im a 17-year-old male and i've been masterbating since I split a lot.
These days I masterbate at least once a day. Will masterbating affect my health, growth, sexual future, bones, or anything at all??
What are the effects of masterbating?
Should I stop or at least masterbate less?

Plz help im really worried..
Thanks :)

Bgivs: masturbation is a normal healthy activity. It does not cause any medical problems or have any serious long term effects or side effects. It should not hurt or cause any future problems. Masturbating can be done as frequently as you wish as long as it does not interfere with your life. It won't cause any health, growth, sexual, or bone problems as long as you don't over do it; and masturbating once a day is not overdoing it. The only reason that you want to cut back is if you noticed stress problems in your life caused by your masturbation; but you arn't masturbating nearly enough to have these problems.
As long as you dont have any of the problems below caused by "over masturbation," you have nothing to worry about. These problems are caused by masturbating 5 or more times a day. But it doesn't seem as though you should be having any of these problems seeing that you masturbate just once a day, just as I do and I have no problems. Let me know if you do and I can give you some additional advice. The symptoms of of over masturbation are:
-thinning hair / hair loss
-soft / weak erection
-premature ejaculation
-eye floaters or fuzzy vision
-groin / testicular pain
-pain or cramp in the pelvic cavity or/and tail bone
don't worry if you meet 2 or less of these symptoms, its most likely just a coincidince.
Don't worry about it, just enjoy it! Hope this helps and let me know if you have any more questions!