When I met my boyfriend we had blissful
love, awesome attraction
then he made an issue of being a friend to
his ex girlfriend because she insisted
upon it
he made me go to her college graduation,
we had mass problems over her, he finally
dis'ed her and she left the situation
she's younger than me, tall i'm petite,
though her face is doggier
she's so arrogant, european, thinks
americans are stupid, she thinks she's
better than me, always rolls her eyes when
I see her, I hate her guts
i found a disgusting picture of her
pulling up her dress and showing her nasty
behind in a public place in his stacks of
pictures of her, she thinks she's so
sexy...
I want to sabotage the b*tch, I want to
send this to her boss, to her sports
colleagues, she puts herself across as a
decent person when she's a promiscuous
person...
She's dating a guy who divorced his ex
wife over her, should I send the nasty
ugly skanky picture to his ex or just to
the males in her life that judge her...?
I can send it anonymousely via email
i want her to cry 1/1000th the amount of
time she's made me cry
i know I sound sick, I don't want to hurt
her any more than she's made it a point to
push her weight around and hurt others
(i'm not the first to hate her)
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Ambience24
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Aug 2005 Posts: 64
Not Worth It.. Posted: 08-11-05 13:38pm
Only person this hurts is you ultimately.
Remember it's not what you do in life,
it's the person you become, no matter if
you want revenge.It will be you who hurts
in the long run, let it rest hun , I know
it hurts, revenge is a bad feeling to hold
in yourself, it can make you ill.
Try to get on with your life, if things go
to s**t, then so be it. Be stong in
yourself, build up yourself worth and see
things in a nice light. You only live
once, you will look back in a year and
think nothing of this.
Also, your boyfriend should respect your
wish that you don't want him to see his
ex. Make it clear how much this hurts you
to him. He is the one in the wrong here
for wanting to contiunue the relationship
with her when he is with you. Tell him if
it's over with her, why remain friends if
it is going to damage your relationship ,
be diplomatic hun it works best.
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bme30
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2005 Posts: 2
Posted: 08-11-05 13:57pm
The best thing to do is take care of you
and your relationship. Dont worry about
her. Shell get whatever it is she
deserves. Your wasting good energy on
her. Use that energy to rock ur mans
world. :lol:
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vanessalouanne
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2005 Posts: 2268 Location: ,
Thanks: 1
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Posted: 08-11-05 14:01pm
While I agree that you should
take the high road and be the better
person, reveange is sweet and I would try
to get back at her skanky ass. Lets
just get this out there, im not the bigger
person. When I found pictures of exes
in my husbands old room at his parents
house. (which he hadnt cleaned in years)
we went out and burned them, along with
every letter or piece of memrobilia he
had. I know this was childish but you
know what it made me fee a lot better
knowing that sh*t was out of his room.
Whatever you ended up doing, just make
sure it doesnt get back to you. Thoes
pictures probably would, because she would
know who took them and who had the only
copies, shed also know you had access to
them and she knows you dont like her.
Just be careful with whatever you do do
and dont anything that could get you in
serious trouble (nothing illegal)
also you better make sure it is worth it
because if you boy finds out it could be
the end of you guys. Id just make sure
it is worth it and if it is then go for
it.
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Posted: 10-16-05 08:07am
I wanted to fu*%!Ng homicide the ass who
knowingly gave me herpes but instead I
directed my aggression at the gym and lost
30 lbs which really helped my self esteem.
Years later I am glad I didnt give in to
all the psycho things I wanted to do to
him. I believe in karma- what goes
around comes around. I heard 2 years
later that he got hiv. Sounds like hes
been punished to me.
