Joined: 12 May 2005 Posts: 229 Location: South East England
Could I Be Pregnant? Posted: 08-11-05 17:25pm
Myself and my partner dont use protection,
but use the withdrawal method and normaly
avoid any kind of poking activities around
the middle of my cycle just so that we
dont push push our luck!
My last period was on the 14th of july,
was normal, I seem to have a 32 day cycle
that has become regular at that now and
nothing was out of place.. According to a
ovulation chart I would have been
ovulating or at a higher risk of pregnancy
from the 29th july to the 2nd of august.
Saturday just gone I noticed itching with
in my lower area, it was sore I wanted to
maime it, peeing was fine, but wiping was
incredibly painful, it felt like sandpaper
and although there was discharge it felt
dry and gritty.
On sunday I noticed that my nipples had
become extra friendly and would saulte me
at any given oppertunity, this hasnt
stopped and they are still sensitive, if I
tweek them its not a pleasureable thing if
you follow.
Yesterday my left boob started to feel
firmer, I have a "variety pack" for boobs,
and my left one is a cup size smaller than
my right, but even with my monthlys my
left boob always hurts first and it always
gets a swelling in it. This time its like
its all over sore.. And to boot the
nipples is sore and the areola is pooting
at me. Its like its got a baloon
underneath it!
Yesterday I noticed a vein in my right
boob that I hadnt noticed before and today
some have apperared in my right one.
I am more lethargic than normal, but I
have been signed of sock from work due to
a plate being taken out of my arm so
therefore sitting on my butt all day is
gonna make me feel sleepy from lack of
doign anything.
I have sat in the house with large
quanities of chocolate and I havnt touched
them.. Which is not normal for me, I just
dont fancy them. Not in teh chocolate
mood.
Every time my partner gets home from work
I get up and go and give him a hug and a
kiss he has said to me for the last few
days that I feel really warm, but I am
sitting on a leather couch and I do have a
laptop on my lap...
To boot.. With no change in my diet I am
passing wind to a amusing level.. If your
humour is still at that level!
But after all of this.. I am still not
due on my monthlys till monday.. Given I
am at day 29 now, my normal average is 32
and has been for a good 6 months.
So basically what I am asking.. Is could
I be pregnant.. I read the forums.. I
know what people post.. If I were to read
this and it would not be from me I would
probally go tell me to go take a test..
But I am still a week away and to me this
is a little early for things to start
showing up.
I have been pregnant before but I lost the
baby at 7 1/2 weeks, all I remember from
it was that I was 7 weeks before I found
out and only then did I show up postive as
I took it at 4,5 and 6 weeks.. And I got
motion sickness.. Never was sick but
didnt feel too peeky in the car on
motorways!
I have a test in the other room and I want
to take it, but I am scared to.
As much as I got very depressed when I
lost my other one I am not sure I am ready
for this again, fear sets in and I could
not go though that again.. And if I was
we are not really in the right montary
state at the moment, I know you will say
then we should have used protection.. All
well and good telling me now but whats
done is done!
So.. In other words.. What you lot
think?
Georgina
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 08-11-05 17:35pm
You sound really possible.
If you are like me and my daughter you
will still have to wait until 7 weeks we
both did, be4 test will come back pos.
Just like last preg, which means 3 weeks
past missed period. Or you can go to the
dr after implantation which is 10 to 14
days and he can do a blood test for hcg.
Good luck
you really sound like I do--i am 6.5 weeks
this past wed
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askara
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 May 2005 Posts: 229 Location: South East England
Posted: 08-11-05 18:57pm
I kinda forgot one thing.. Laying in bed
just now I remembered.
Could this all be in my head.. If I hadnt
lost the babyi would be due within the
next 10 days.
I have heard of irony.. But this is
taking it a little far dont you think?
I am trying to tell my self thats its in
my head, that because of where I am my
body is trying to have one last attempt at
giving me the finger, but as I sit here, I
stare at my boobs and think I really dont
remember there being a large blue vein
right around the areola of both of them
before..
I may take a test in the morning.. But I
am still 4 days away from my monthly due
date but chances are I will chicken
out.
After I lost the baby, even though it was
only 7.5 weeks in to it.. And I was only
fully aware for less than a week your mind
races, it wonders what it looks like,
whether its a boy or a girl, how my life
was going to change and then all of that
was gone... And I wanted it back so
badly, I didnt want to try again, I just
wanted the one that was gone back and I
had no idea why.
Eventually I excepted that it just wasnt
my time.
Now, as the week approaches where I would
be presented with a ball of poop vomit and
screaming ;) I am sitting here thinking
its not over yet..
And worst of all... How do I tell my
partner.
He wants to have kids one day, but that
day isnt now he says we dont have the
money for it, which I do agree on to a
certain level. He would never make me
even consider a termination, neither of us
really believe that thats the right thing
to do unless its curcumstances beyond our
control.
But I think I will crawl back in to bed
now.
George
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 08-11-05 22:53pm
Maybe you should wait until the due date
and do preg test like another writer
suggested on her expected due date of
previos miscarriage. I thought it was a
real good idea. I know what it feels
like I miscarried 6 babies.
Good luck george--
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askara
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 May 2005 Posts: 229 Location: South East England
Posted: 08-12-05 07:34am
I did a test, it was negative.
Guess I will have to wait a little longer
to be put out of my misery, its the not
knowing either way that is the torture.
I am sitting here shitting my self, as
personally with in me.. I dont feel
pregnant.. But I seem to think I am.
I nearly threw up this morning.. Which I
am sure is in my head but managed to calm
my self down and supress the gagging.
I am having small cramp pains in my left
lower belly areas they are not my normal
cramps more of a twinge, and there are now
very visable veins all over my areolas.
When I push on my belly normaly its fine,
I get constipated sometimes from lack of
fibre I guess and can normaly feel the
feaces moving though my colon and its
tender where I push.. At the moment I
cant feel anything like that but pushing
about a inch above my pubic line is giving
me a little discomfort.
I dont know what to think, seeing the
negative test was a shock, as much as this
scares me so much I expected it to give me
2 lines. I know it said negative, but
every time I look at my boobs I see more
than one line.
This is gonna mess my head up, and to
think that something like this is meant to
be a happy event.
Why is it the one thing you think about
wanting most.. When faced with it you
caca a brick?
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 08-12-05 08:10am
Sometimes the urine test never come out.
Sometimes they take a lot longer than
advertised to come out. Me 20 years ago
had to wait until 3 weeks after missed
period to get a pos test. My daughter 2
years ag the same thing, 3 weeks after
missed period to get pos test. She went
in and had like 5 different test at
different times, kept say neg. But she
knew she was--so did i.
Good luck hope you are!!
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askara
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 May 2005 Posts: 229 Location: South East England
Posted: 08-13-05 05:45am
Thanks fatfamily, I appreicate your
replys!
I have to add cramps to the list of thing
going on now, they are intermittened..
But mainly centeral.
I am still dead tired and all that fun
stuff, the waiting game is killing me.
I accidently messed up yesterday nd left
the wrapper to the preg. Test out.. My
partner came home saw it and asked me if I
had anything to tell him! I said no..
But dont take my word on that, he was a
little phased as we really dont have the
money, but no flipping and has been
wonderful, he thinks that maybe its all in
my head due to the time of month and what
woudl have beenthis month, oh well.. We
will see. But right now I am atcually
hoping I am. Fear has left me, it was
only there due to how I woudl tel him..
But I guess thas outta the way now.
I will probaly test again on wednesday.
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 08-13-05 09:03am
That made me feel so good for you I cryed,
for joy in my spirit for you, leaped when
I felt you. Do you know what I mean? I
felt the wanting to be becuz of the
previous mentioned miscarriage, and I felt
the joy that you now have no worries. "no
worries for the rest of your days, its a
problem free philosophy, hacunnamattata"
lion king 1995.
God is wonderful
he can join pple in distant lands to one
another, just by the words spoken and
strike a tune in another mans heart.
Great day to you
much love goes out to you and yours
today--with the blessings of god behind
it. Amen
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askara
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 May 2005 Posts: 229 Location: South East England
Posted: 08-15-05 04:22am
Well it seems it was a mind game.
I thought I spotted last night as there
was only a tiny bit and then nothing more
for 12+ hours.. But this morning.. As
predicted its here in fulll force to
torment me.
Maybe it is a blessing as I have a job
interview today which if I get it is a 10k
payrise which with my current money
situation it will improve thigns greatly
and I can start clearing some of my large
debt my partner and I have managed to get
in to since buying a house.
Oh well. To good to be true really...
One day I will be and I will just ignore
it and I will just think that my body is
saulting me again!
Thanks for your help fatfamily.
Appreciated
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Let Me Know.... Posted: 08-15-05 06:32am
Let me know if this turns out to just be
lite or quits right away--as noted from
many of these woman they have spotting
lite periods then nothing--still feeling
pregnant. My mom had periods all 6
months with my sister. I had one full
cramping period with one of my
pregnancy's. And all these girls on here
seems to have spottingm, lite periods
ending in continued pregnancy symptoms.
Implantation bleeding let me know k???
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askara
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 May 2005 Posts: 229 Location: South East England
Posted: 08-16-05 07:41am
Aw man. I had cramps s bad yesterday I
was crying, I was on my bed crying wiht a
hot water bottle on my back and my belly,
its definatly not going away. The
tenderness is finally subsiding in my
boobs which is a plus, I had to take some
painkillers yesterday as a result as I
could not drive to my interview the way I
was and it took double what I normaly take
to take the pain away.
Thanks for all your help, lets hope I get
this job and then I have have lots more
money to spoil any future brat of mine!!
-squishes- cheers doll!
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 08-16-05 08:04am
Im sorry
just keep trying it will happen and prolly
when you lease expect it.
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askara
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 May 2005 Posts: 229 Location: South East England
Posted: 08-17-05 06:33am
Uh.. Ok.. Now I am confused.
Boobs are no longer tender, feel pretty
ok.
But period has stopped. Was a spotting
sunday, med flow monday, light flow
yesterday, btu constant, and nothing
really other than brown stuff since last
night.
-twitch-
i went for a 5 mile bike ride with my
partner yesterday to find new routes for
him to run and I expected that to jiggle
things about and make thigs move.. But I
have had nothing since then.
I rang my doctor but I have to ring again
in the morning so will do so then but
yeah.. Little confused.
I feel lightheaded and funky.. But I will
put that down to the fact that all I have
eaten today is candy!
When I had the really really bad cramps I
took some co-dyrdramol as that was the
only painkillers I had in the house, these
have a lovely constiopating efect, I gave
my self a abdominal massage and got it all
moving but if anything I have had really
frequent motions which are soft.
Silly q.. But at what point does your
belly start to feel diffrent?
Cause now.. Again.. My head is doing its
nut.
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 08-17-05 06:48am
Strange or different period are sometimes
common in early pregnancy. I know I had
one full cramping period with one of my
pregnancy's and my mom---bless her heart
had a period the whole 6 months with my
sister.
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askara
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 May 2005 Posts: 229 Location: South East England
Posted: 08-17-05 07:45am
-bangs head on table-
now its back in small amounts. This is
crazy.
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bebesherone
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2005 Posts: 3
Posted: 08-18-05 14:54pm
Ok...For the past week or so i've had all
of these crazy symptoms. Dizziness for
about 4 days, constant headaches, and
nausea. But now all symptoms are gone
and all I feel is a little cramping in my
lower abdoman. I'm supposed to start my
period on the 22nd and usually by now I
would have all of my period
symptoms...Pms, gas, bloating, and sore
boobs, but I don't. Any suggestions as
to what it maybe. I really think i'm
preg-o but maybe that's just because I
hope I am. Help!!!!
