What's the best way to break the hymen?
It hurt so bad when my bf was trying to
push into me, but I just "held on" and
wanted him to break it for him to
penetrate me. Is that the best way? Or
should you stretch it repeatedly, and then
it will break "smoother" when he
eventually inserts?
Also, is being "horny" just wanting it?
Sometimes, when I "want," I feel my clit
getting "excited." but sometimes, nothing
at all, just the desire and acting upon.
There doesn't seem to be anything tingling
or great about the sexual experience --
its all: relax and there's something
special about it all. Sometimes I get the
great o when my bf fingers me. Is all
this normal? It seems like a guy has more
"fun" than women, or is it just me? Thx!
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3kizz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 308
Posted: 08-12-05 07:50am
So you just don't dry hump. You have
women cat fighting in the other forum when
you are actually having sex. As far as
the hyman you might not even have one.
Some women do have one, some women can
break it in invasive activities. And some
can be born without. It mostly always
hurts when you have sex for thr first
time. Pleasure is around the corner.
Relax and try to enjoy
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shortie02
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 74
Posted: 08-12-05 09:17am
Thanks 3kizz. I shouldn't have wrote
what I wrote about the prayer. I was
getting so mad at that lady who should
have just answered the questions from her
knowledge, not her philosophy. Gaah!
It just really hurt, I really love my b/f
and wouldn't leave him if a herd of wild
horses attempted to drag me from him.
Yeah, I am totally unsure about things and
I have no one to talk to who has had
experience which is why I am on this site.
And I am just so curious about
everything - I don't know if i'm normal or
doing the wrong things or what. Thanks
3kizz. And if anyone else has info, that
would be great if you could share it.
Pz.
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3kizz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 308
Posted: 08-12-05 09:25am
If you ant more ?'s sent me a private
message
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Tylanas
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jul 2005 Posts: 12985
Thanks: 3
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Posted: 08-28-05 22:13pm
You need to get the right angle for him to
slide in "smoothly", that's the most
important thing about sex :)
if he's got an akward angle, it can be
painful even if you've got a gaping hole
down thre; he's never getting in! You
have to adjust it till it will simply
slide right in. Stretching the entrance
to your vagina can help to make it less
painful. I'm figuring that the first tiem
you tried, it was simply the wrong angle.
Try from behind; it's shallower, so it's
less painful for your first time; plus
it's easier for him to get the entrance
angle just right.
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shortie02
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 74
Posted: 08-29-05 05:39am
Time has passed - hymen has broke, and all
has went well. Thank-you, though!
:wink:
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shortie02
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 74
Posted: 04-24-06 21:07pm
I hate myself. I wish I could tear out my
uterus.
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jenn_smithson
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Nov 2004 Posts: 808 Location: Texas
Posted: 04-24-06 22:25pm
shortie02
wrote:
i hate myself. I wish I
could tear out my
uterus.
why?
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 04-25-06 02:00am
And why have you dragged up a post from
almost a year ago?
I assume this means you are now
pregnant?
And as for the comment of wishing you
could tear out your uterus.... Be careful
what you wish for it just may come true.
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shortie02
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 74
Posted: 04-30-06 11:07am
How? How does one tear out her own
uterus?
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shawn0000
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 May 2004 Posts: 27 Location: Minnesota
Posted: 05-01-06 01:46am
My girl friend used me to break hers. So
she could use tampons. She didn’t want
the doctor to do it. So she pushed me on
my bed. Then she got me hard. Then she
put it in and left it there for awhile.
Just sitting there. Well I ejaculated
when she lifted up. So it didn’t matter
any more so we just had sex after she was
ready. So in the end she got pregnant.
But we were in love any way so it didn’t
matter. But that’s how I broke hers.
She said it didn’t hurt at all to!
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