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Oh my gosh. You are so young. 13? Do your parents know? Are you with the father? Do you have a plan yet? Dont be scared, we are here for you but you are very, very young. Was it a for sure thing? Did the doc tell you?

I got a preg test at planned parenthood...They told me to get an abortion and I told them no. My parents dont' know and wouldn't care anyway, cuz i'm on my own anyway. My bf called me a promiscuous person and said it wasn't his...I don't know what i'm gonna do, but I am going to keep the baby!

Denise

Oh girl....I am so sorry. I can't even imagine what that would be like. I mean, i'm only 14 but for some reason I feel years older than I did when I was 13. Lol. I am almost 24 weeks pregnant. (on friday) and im havin a boy. Everyone wanted me to have an abortion or give it up for adoption in the beginning too. Just do what ur doin. Refuse and tell them its ur baby and ur responsibility and ur gonna raise it. I totally support u. And altho my babys daddy didnt act in any such manner (i would have beat him silly if he had lol) I know how u feel. Its not a good feeling when sum1 calls u a promiscuous person or a prostitute. But just hold ur head up and be proud. Im here to talk if u need me. My aim sn is joshuasmommy321 or yahoo is sneakyfreakygrl. Or just pm me. Hope this helps.

Note~after reading further posts, I still support you but I don't think you should keep this baby because you really dont seem ready for it and it sounds like you are keeping it for all the wrong reasons and selling drugs is no example to set for a child!!!

Denise.

First, how are you on your own anyway? You are only 13. Not even allowed to drive, work, or do anything. Ok leave your guy because he's a dead beat. How old is he? Either way you should leave him. Maybe you should think about adoption. You might not like it but just think about it. I mean you are so young and you have to think about the future of your baby, what future can you have for it? Can you provide everything from a safe environment to food on the table, milk, clothes and diapers. You need to have a plan for yourself as well. Education and career. Can you be ok with being alone and having to deal with the stress of a baby? You might not like what im saying but reality is, this is no piece of cake. My niece was throwing up this weekend and was crying and crying and we all had to be there for her and they took her to the emegency to find out she has 2 ear infections. So she needs medicine and alot of love. You have to be able to do all this until your baby is 18. There are so many loving families that would love to have a baby to take care of. This is a big responisibility. If your parents arent gonna be there or care, or the father isnt gonna be there...Whos going to help you? You need to think very hard and clear on all of this. I myself am 20 and I cant have a baby because I trying to get settled financially. Alot of money, time and love go into this. Be sure you can handle it. I dont reccomend abortion. But maybe letting a family who can provide a wonderful future for your baby have a chance. You dont want your baby to have the life your having right? Where your parents dont care and things like that. Just think on it. Be safe, eat right, walk daily, and drink your vitamins. No smoke or alchohol.

My bf is 20 and he thinks i'm sleeping around but i'm not and I live with friends.

I'm 17 with a 11 month old and her father was there then denied her then was there and now denied her. Whatever you do don't let the guys play games. Either your there or your not. At 13 you will be a good mom you are young but i've seen some1 who was 12 and she does great. There is alot of programs you could go for help. Just keep your head up just don't let everyone get the best of you.
Trina
if anything pm me if u want to chat.

I don't wanna have to do it on my own. I want him to be there cuz I love him...I'll prob try to get on ricki lake or something to get a dna test to prove that it is his, then he'll have to be there for us.

Denise

Thats really asking for drama and humiliation. Hes 20 and your 13. That is a very, very big difference. Not only is that opening a can of worms, but can also ask for being jailbait. He can go to jail for stat rape. You need to have a better plan than that. Your going to be a mother. And you not only have to have a plan for now, but for the next 18 years. Its not easy. You live at your friends, but how long will they want a baby there? The dad wont be there I can tell you that. If he says it now, then he's going to be a dead beat from now on.

Hopefully

denise

Dont be sad. You need to tough it out from now on. Get your plan going and get to a doc for check ups, get vitamins, walk alot, eat healthy, save up any money you can. Start babysitting if you have to.

You think someone is goitn to let someone without a home babysitg there kid? And I look young for my age. I don't know yet, but i'll do something. I 'll hid at my bf house when he's a t work and steal any money he has laying around.

Denise

No that is not good. That is breaking and entering. Trespassing. It is a felony. Are you not thinking clearly or are you asking to get arrested? Its also stealing. You need to think of a better way to get money. A legal way. Well then make flyers to mow a lawn or wash a car. No stealing. You cant go into peoples houses and steal money. Who raised you? A felon? Think harder!

Actually one did, but I wont do that then, I 'll just ask bobby to help me, he got me into this, he's the adult not me! I jus t wanna cry, i'm so sad and confused.

Im done with talking to you. You are being so mean in the forum. You give me no reason to help you out. You need to learn your manners.

Hang in there girl! Hopefully u can do it on your own. Your so young! Try to get all the support from your friends and whoever else you can. Just remember we'll all here for u!!!! I'll be thinking of u and hoping the best for u. I am 20 years old and I have a 3 year old daughter. I was 17 when I got pregnant. It's so hard. I wish u the very best and your baby. Whenever u feel u need support just talk to one of us!!!! We're always here!!! :d

Like nickii said if he isn't there now chances are he wouldn't be. Believe that. Going on ricki lake is not going to do nothing but try to get him locked up. Girl what where you thinking with a 20 year old? At that age he most likely has more then one girlfriend. Just don't worry about him. You should be more concerned on what your doing for you and that child.
Trina
there is more fish in the sea!!!