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Q: Am I Pregnant? Please Help!!
asked by: momofmatthew on August 14th, 2005
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Hi-
i am just stresssssing. I cant stop thinking about this. I am pretty sure the first day of my last period was july.16. So that would make me a day late today, right? Wellll.... Still no period... I am freaking!! For the past month I have not been using condoms (i usually always do, and have since my son was born)... So we use the 'pull out' method. I know that even using that method their is the chance of becoming pregnant.... Do you think the pre-cum can come out inside too? I was at the doctors last week getting some cream for my son (wed aug.10).. And while I was there I got a urine test done because I figured I had a bladder infection.. In which I did and got treatment for.. And I got them to do a pregnancy test also.. And it was negative. But I have heard that I could be pregnant and I could've been only a week or so when the test was done, meaning it would not show up.....
So what do you all think?? Do you think I am pregnant?? Should I go out and buy a test??? Or should I wait??? I am freaking out and I am ready to go out and buy a test!!!!!!!! Please respond... I need your help!!
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Pocket Angel
replied on August 14th, 2005
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Pre-cum, from what I have read, is actually more potent with sperm than then main ejaculation. Pre-cum, will come out while he is inside you, as pre-cum means exactly how its read... Before ejaculation.

You should buy a test and see if it comes up positive, now that you are late on your period. If still negative, go to the doctor and get a blood test, not a urin test. Good luck!
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suzyqb
replied on August 15th, 2005
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Hello,

my husband and I were using the same birth control method "pull out"!!! I became prego!!!! Like the previous reply said the pre-cum is the most potent!!!! Good luck!!!!
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momofmatthew
replied on August 15th, 2005
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Thanks you guys :) I took a test yesterday... And it was negative... Just as it was on the wed.Aug.10th. And yesterday I was one day late. Well I still have no period... I am still getting worried... Why do you think it has not come yet? What should I do? I did buy a pregnancy test with 2, so should I wait and try again later? Or go see a dr? Do u think I will get it? I hope so! Please reply!! :) :) :) thanks
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suzyqb
replied on August 15th, 2005
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When was the last time that you had intercourse!!!!! If your first day of your last period was july 16th the way that I understand is that today you would be one day late!!! Maybe if you are really worried you should go to the doctor and have a blood test done. I think if you are pregnant blood results may determine that you are pregnant or not sooner than a home pregnancy test. I hope it all turns out the way you want!!!! Keep us posted!!!!!
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momofmatthew
replied on August 16th, 2005
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Update:
still no period... I made a doctors appt for today though... Couldnt get in until 6:20 but that works. I just told them I i think I have a 'bladder infection' because if you want to see them for pregnancy test, they wont do that, you have to go to the 'wed clinic' for that? I just know that they wont schedule you to see a walk-in doctor unless its sorta important or an emergency... So I had to lie.
So when I go there, do you guys think I should get a blood test?? Is it possible for him to get it done? I think he will have to send me to the lab, and then I might have to wait to find out? Not sure how thats going to work out.
Anyways I thought that you were suppose to count 28 days from the first day of the beginning of your last period? Because if you count 28 days from july 16th, including that day, the 28th day is aug.12. Please keep me posted and let me know about that, ? Because im not sure if I am counting right? Thanks everyone. Please reply!!
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suzyqb
replied on August 16th, 2005
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I think that you are suppose to count 28 days from the first day of your period.........So today you would be 4 days late....If I am counting right!!!!!! I would get a blood test done if they will do it!!! They may send you to the lab. I think I only had to wait about 45min for the results!!!!!!! Ok!! Hope everything works out!!! Keep me posted!!!!! Good luck today!!!!
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momofmatthew
replied on August 16th, 2005
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Welllll guesss what?? Good news!!! I finally had a chance to 'relax' today and wind down by going grocery shopping.. And then I got it.. Im so relieved and happy :) it finally came when I wasnt stressing/thinking about it. Thank goodness because I was starting to get a little worried there. Well I guess I am going out to the store again to be smart and buy some condoms. I am not going without those again!! Thanks for ur help suzi.
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Chrystal
replied on August 16th, 2005
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Stressing usually delays your period also, that possibly was another reason you were late.
Wise choice having safe sex from now on hehe ;)

i never knew I wa spregnant until I was 9 weeks gone and chucking up every morning because my periods are alays so irregular hehe.

Glad you can relax, it's not nice worrying like that.
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babyrae
replied on August 16th, 2005
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Now u be using protection girl ;) haha!
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chromelassie
replied on August 16th, 2005
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Condoms
Dont' forget your local health department will give you condoms for the asking!!!!!!!!!
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