My boyfriend makes fun of me and he today
he said I have small breast like a baby
and he he doesnt want me to get fat when I
visit him in russia...... I am really
hurt by those words. What should I do?
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Posted: 08-15-05 19:06pm
Hun, if your boyfriend makes fun of you
& tells you those things, you
shouldn't put up with it. If a guy can't
accept you for who you are then i'm sure
there's someone else out there that
will..There's more then one fish in the
sea.. & i'm sure you are a beautiful
girl!!
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sillypoint
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Aug 2005 Posts: 11 Location: UK
Posted: 08-17-05 02:30am
You would have to be pretty damn
insensitive to say that to your
girlfriend. I would never make fun of
anything like that in a girl, and if I did
it would be a sign that I didn't respect
her.
You dont need a guy who doesnt understand
when he is hurting u, and u dont need sum1
who doesnt respect u, or sum1 so
insensitive to say such harsh things. You
deserve better and trust me there are a
lot better guys out there who will
appreciate u for who u are.
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fairywonderland
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2005 Posts: 10
Posted: 08-17-05 05:18am
My friend had this problem, and she is
still seeing the guy against all our
advice. She says she loves him. But when
they're together he tells her she is fat
and calls her horrible names... Its even
worse when his friends are around. Its
abusive and vile, and I would tell anyone
in this position to get out of this
relationship... In what way is a
relationship like this rewarding? There
are much nicer guys out there and much
better things :) make yourself happy hun x
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wowgirl90
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Aug 2005 Posts: 23 Location: oglesby
Mmhmm Posted: 09-04-05 22:06pm
Well for one your man sounds like problem
sorry. But when I read what you wrote
down I just though problem. For one
when you are in a relationship with
someone your suppost to be happy and my
dear you sound depressed. You should
dump him your to good for someone like
that. If he thinks your brest are
small why did he date you in the first
place. And another thing woman are not
suppost to take that from a man and the
best thing to do is leave him find another
and he will regret it all.
Thats what I would do.
P.S. Tell me what happens~
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dyowan
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Aug 2005 Posts: 15
Posted: 09-04-05 23:42pm
They are right gurl, dump your problem
boyfriend, he's not for you...
Find another guy and be happy.
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blackwinded
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Sep 2005 Posts: 45 Location: US of A
Posted: 09-08-05 04:57am
Sarah--please break up with this @$$ wipe.
But not without first letting him know
what a jerk he is and that you don't
deserve to be treated like that!
I know this is hard. Easier said thatn
done. I know because i've been
contemplating breaking up with my
boyfriend for the last 5 or 6 months who
i've been with for 2 years, but it's not
exactly that easy, break-ups are hard,
especially when you really do care about
the person.
How long have you been with this guy? I
can't believe some of the men out there!
Oh the nerve!
If he is they kind of person you have
descibed (a complete insensitive, selfish,
peace of dirt) you will only end up
getting hurt more the longer you stay
with him. From what you've described, he
sure sounds like the kind of guy that will
cheat on you if he hasn't already.
Please try and realize that you deserve
much better and that you need to break up
with him. If you stay with someone who is
so critical of your appearance and such,
it will likely result in you becomming
very depressed and having very low self
esteem, if you havn't already.
