I recently became sexually active, and have been using a condom. Before ejaculation I pull out so not to come inside her.
Is this effective in reducing the risk of pregnancy or am I just wasting my time? Does a condom have to break for her to be at risk of getting pregnant or does sperm occassionally pass through defective latex?
Also, how could I convince my partner to go on the pill? She says she cannot swallow pills, but surely a tiny pill like this shouldn't be a problem.
Cheers.