16 And Might Be Pregnant!!!

I'de suggest ignoring pcforme... And actually intelligence does provide.. As long as she continues schooling and into college then she can get a great job and that job will provide for her child so lay off. Anyway.. If you have been seriously stressing it then that will delay your period.. But I would say your only real option is to wait til your missed period, if you haven't missed it already and take a hpt. And then go from there depending on the results.

If ya need to talk just e-mail me at kate9 17881@hotmail.Com

Ignore her/him-- pcforme is like that to every one.

If you want to be hope you are--mom will be fine, if not, go make a life for you, him and baby. It will work out either way.

Sometimes test dont come out right away even though they say 4 days be4 missed period. My daughter had to wait until 3 weeks after missed period to find out for sure if she was. She already knew though after repeated neg tests.

I really think that that was very very rude of how you just say that sum1 is gonna end up on welfare....Actually for your information im not gonna end up on welfare because of the fact that my family has money and so does my boyfriends family....See I get anything that I want and dont have to worry about how much it cost. So I think that you could leave sum1 sum concerning info or not leave any at all.....Oh and by tha way....Yea I was stupid for not making him use a condom....

Thanx for all of the comments and advice...Im not gonna let some health forum like that bring me and my hopes down.....You know I love my boyfriend to deatha and I know that he would never leave me especially if I am pregnant....I think the only reason that my mom will be mad is because it will be a mixed baby and also because I am so young....But she will understand because I do have my life together and so does he and also the school that I go to provides day care services until the baby is 2 yrs old and I am only a junior in high school so when I graduate the baby will be 2 so....And yes I plan on going to college and majoring in the medical field and having a job some where and sometimes dealing with fashion!!! O well I will keep yall updated and let yall know if I am...Thanx!!!

Pcforme..The truth is .. Not all of these girls leave the responsibilty of their child and raising their child to their parents or grandparents.. So you don't exactly know thats what she will do.. So leave the accusations out of it.. Don't go accusing her and saying she'll leave the responsibility to someone else because you don't know that.. No one does.. Except for her..

I'm not trying to start anything. I try to get along with everyone but omg. Pc do you really have nothing more to do than log onto a site that you know women are going to have alot of questions about pregnancy, feeling unsure and what not, and just sometimes need to vent. I'm new to this site and it seems like every post I read has you in it being mean to someone, yes i'm sure you can reply back that you are just telling it like it is but come on. Do you have to be quite so mean? You give this forum a bad name. I'm already considering finding a new one. If you don't like anyone why don't you go find a site where everyone is hateful and have at it?

Pcforme is being alittle harsh, but ultimately she is pointing out the truth. She staetes that she is beautiful and smart but didn't have the smarts to use protection. Okay we all know the heat of the moment, we can all forget or ignore using protection not to turn off the feelings in that moment you are trying to feel some pleasure. Unless they have the support and direction of their family at 16 it will be very dificult to establish an almost desent home enviroment. Someone has to drop out of school. To provide for her and the baby. I hope she is lucky enough that both their parents will help in some way to provide. Believe you me there are plenty of parents that turn their shoulders when something like this happens to their child. In the long run what has happened has happened. I just wish more teens can avoid this situation. Some can get on their feet and some are lost in the cracks. The truth is the truth....I come from an old fashion home where abstiance is a must until either old enough or even married. Sadly the statistics are out there. More teens are dropping out of school, having more unprotected sex and becoming teen mothers and fathers without a pot to piss in, and carried by the state. Pcforme is harsh in telling the truth, but most of us know the truth without voicing it. At 16..... Without the help of parents or an adult that will help them. What kind of future can they have????????

I agree, but still it just seems like she has a vendetta against everyone. And whether that is true or not i'm just telling you what it looks like from someone brand new to forum.

I agree, but still it just seems like she has a vendetta against everyone. And whether that is true or not i'm just telling you what it looks like from someone brand new to forum.

There is nothing wrong with telling the truth but I am talking about your attitude. When you tell the truth do you really nead to cuss and call people b**ch. You could have helped her in telling the truth in a more appropriate way. Because we all know at her age when they hear sarcasim and insults they stop listening. Even at my age I might if you were talking to me that way. And oh, i'm sorry I thought this was a place that helped not discourage and cut down even when telling the truth. My mother always told me that you can always be honest to someone just do it in love.

Yes your right, some ppl come off that way. But everyone is different in how we give our opinion. Some of us are sweet and can sugarcoat it or just be harsh. In her harsh way she is stating her feelings for this young girl. Come on lets face reality its a bad world out there for adults could you imaine being a teen and pregnant and trying to live for yourself and a child. Its a no win situation for all. She was pointing out the truth, why on heavens reen earth would you want to be pregnant at 16. There is so much more at this age to explore.

It doesn't matter what she does with her life.. Weither she leaves the responsiblity to her parents.. Or goes on welfare...Or what.. The fact is she's here asking advice.. Ultimarly she is concerned with weither or not she may be pregnant.. I suggest getting a hpt.. But anyway.. Sure she states she is smart..And yeah it's doesn't seem smart to not use protection but no matter what anyone says it's not going to change it .. What's done is done..So now it's advice time..And if you don't have anything helpful to say..Then don't say anything.. It's as simple as that.

Ok, once again though I am not just referring to this post but every post I read of hers. But oh well, I guess that is society now and I am sorry for everyone who feels that the only way to be honest is to cut down and talk down to someone. Sorry if I offended I will find another forum to talk in. Thank-you though for earlier.

I'm out of here too this is too stressful for me katebug email if you need to we can at least keep talking sabse rdanvan@yahoo.Com

Actually pcforme my mommie and daddie as you say are not gonna be taking care of my baby....Me and my boyfriend will be....For your info noone ever said that I live under my mommie and daddie's roof....I live in my own house......Actually 2 story apartment but besides the point...I pay all my bills all my expenses and everything else....Yes I am spoiled but I am very independent.....You pcforme are actually a no good hateful health forum....Dont you have any respect for any body....For your info I will be with my child everyday and night....I only go to school from 8 in the morning to 11:21 in the morning and I work 5 hours aday making $10.00 a hour soo actually I am prolly making more than you!!!!! Thanx everyone for the posistive support and all....Oh and by the way... My mom does approve of him...She loves him to death now that she has got to know him and all but the only thing she doesnt like is that he is black but she knows that I am gonna be with him any way it goes....

I think pcforme is very very rude girls and women come on this site to get some support if thay haven't anyone else talk to, and answers to some questions,
i think he/she is rude, bitter and twisted

anyone else agree?? :!:

Just ignore her. She just wants all the attention to be on her.

Yeah he should have wore a condom but you know that is your alls choice. I am biracial so I know how that feels. But hey you just ignore people and listen to the ones that count

Sorry to burst your bubble honey but, $10 an hour is squat when you raise a child...How are you gonna buy diapers...Formula...Pay a mortgage, car payment, gas,phone, insurance, babysitter etc...On that salary?
Work 23 hours a day with one hour sleep?

Honestly....I'm not trying to be a as/sf/uck..But think about it.