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Q: Is This Normal

asked by: CAMAROGIRL42482 on August 16th, 2005

Experienced User

Jimmy has been jacking off alot more lately. Like last night I was in the mood and I told him and he said he wasnt so I went to bed. Then this morning I noticed he was on a porn site and jacked off. This has been happening alot lately and I am being to feel unattractive. Its bad enough with these horomones, and the growing belly I got, but since he is doing this more it makes it worse, because I am begining to feel that he feels the same way. I dont know what to do or how to tell him without making him mad or making it seem like I am blaming him for everything. I just dont know

well I talked to jimmy about the way I feel and he said that, with what he is doing as nothing to do with being attracted to me. He said he dont see me as gay woman or fat or anything, he told me not to worry and that if he wasnt attracted to me he would be gone. He said that this week and next he is gonna try and put over time in so he can buy me some cute pregnancy cloths so I can feel and look cute and comfortable.

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Chrystal

replied on August 16th, 2005

New User

Hi,

i think maybe he may be worried about hurting you or doing damage to the baby.
Maybe reasure him he won't do any damage to you or the baby.

CAMAROGIRL42482

replied on August 16th, 2005

Experienced User

Yeah thats a good point, but this is our secound baby, and with the first one he wasnt scared of anything like that. But then again, he has changed alot since the first one. We had a really rough time in our realationship for about 2 years, it was this on again off again things. I was not trusting him with anything. Cheating or whatever. But we both have grown up since then. But anyways I am scared that there is so much damage from them that he is scared that it will happen again.

Chrystal

replied on August 16th, 2005

New User

I think the best thing to do really is just sit him down and go over it all with him, talkign is always the best medicine for problems, well that's what I usually do when i'm unhappy/worried about something in mine and my boyfriends relationship, it usually works. It's about reasuring and clearing things up.
I hope you sort things out. You need to feel loved at a time like this don't you :)

CAMAROGIRL42482

replied on August 16th, 2005

Experienced User

Thank you, I talked a little to him up at work an he said not to worry I hope it is just a phase he is going through.

It might be because I cant seem to climax for a long time, and no positions feel right to me, but I never said anything to him aout it. Maybe he can tell that it is harder to do now. Oh and I am about 21 weeks pregnant

Chrystal

replied on August 16th, 2005

New User

Yeh men do pick up on things, he has probably sensed some discomfort from you. This is very personal of me to say haha, but I haven't had sex with my partner since I got pregnant which was 4 months ago! If your partner loves you he'll stay and stick by you with everything.
I think once he knows all you are worried about and the ins and outs of things, you may see a change in him, of course I don't know hehe, but men do worry they just don't often let on or say anything.

CAMAROGIRL42482

replied on August 16th, 2005

Experienced User

Lol, thanks for listening, its been a while for me and my boyfriend to. Lol
with the frist pregnancy he wasnt as concerned or stuck by me like this one. He goes out of his way for alot of things, it so cute I used to pretty much wait on him hand and foot and now, he asks me if I will do things for him, and ten I say sure and then he says I will get you just relax. I love him so much and we have been through so much

Chrystal

replied on August 16th, 2005

New User

Aww, you are welcome, one of the good things of being pregnant hehe, being waited on ;)
men are sweet at these times as I have come to find out. Treated like little delicate flowers hehe.

I remember being scared of telling my partner about the big news, but he was so lovely, and often catch him smiling alot and hugging me and touching my belly, didn't expect any of it.

We have to enjoy it while it lasts! :d

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