Jimmy has been jacking off alot more
lately. Like last night I was in the mood
and I told him and he said he wasnt so I
went to bed. Then this morning I noticed
he was on a porn site and jacked off.
This has been happening alot lately and I
am being to feel unattractive. Its bad
enough with these horomones, and the
growing belly I got, but since he is doing
this more it makes it worse, because I am
begining to feel that he feels the same
way. I dont know what to do or how to
tell him without making him mad or making
it seem like I am blaming him for
everything. I just dont know
well I talked to jimmy about the way I
feel and he said that, with what he is
doing as nothing to do with being
attracted to me. He said he dont see me
as gay woman or fat or anything, he told
me not to worry and that if he wasnt
attracted to me he would be gone. He said
that this week and next he is gonna try
and put over time in so he can buy me some
cute pregnancy cloths so I can feel and
look cute and comfortable.
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Chrystal
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Aug 2005 Posts: 33
Posted: 08-16-05 13:21pm
Hi,
i think maybe he may be worried about
hurting you or doing damage to the baby.
Maybe reasure him he won't do any damage
to you or the baby.
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CAMAROGIRL42482
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Feb 2004 Posts: 98 Location: FENTON
Posted: 08-16-05 13:28pm
Yeah thats a good point, but this is our
secound baby, and with the first one he
wasnt scared of anything like that. But
then again, he has changed alot since the
first one. We had a really rough time in
our realationship for about 2 years, it
was this on again off again things. I
was not trusting him with anything.
Cheating or whatever. But we both have
grown up since then. But anyways I am
scared that there is so much damage from
them that he is scared that it will happen
again.
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Chrystal
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Aug 2005 Posts: 33
Posted: 08-16-05 13:32pm
I think the best thing to do really is
just sit him down and go over it all with
him, talkign is always the best medicine
for problems, well that's what I usually
do when i'm unhappy/worried about
something in mine and my boyfriends
relationship, it usually works. It's
about reasuring and clearing things up.
I hope you sort things out. You need to
feel loved at a time like this don't you
:)
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CAMAROGIRL42482
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Feb 2004 Posts: 98 Location: FENTON
Posted: 08-16-05 13:35pm
Thank you, I talked a little to him up at
work an he said not to worry I hope it is
just a phase he is going through.
It might be because I cant seem to climax
for a long time, and no positions feel
right to me, but I never said anything to
him aout it. Maybe he can tell that it
is harder to do now. Oh and I am about
21 weeks pregnant
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Chrystal
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Aug 2005 Posts: 33
Posted: 08-16-05 13:41pm
Yeh men do pick up on things, he has
probably sensed some discomfort from you.
This is very personal of me to say haha,
but I haven't had sex with my partner
since I got pregnant which was 4 months
ago! If your partner loves you he'll
stay and stick by you with everything.
I think once he knows all you are worried
about and the ins and outs of things, you
may see a change in him, of course I don't
know hehe, but men do worry they just
don't often let on or say anything.
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CAMAROGIRL42482
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Feb 2004 Posts: 98 Location: FENTON
Posted: 08-16-05 14:05pm
Lol, thanks for listening, its been a
while for me and my boyfriend to. Lol
with the frist pregnancy he wasnt as
concerned or stuck by me like this one.
He goes out of his way for alot of things,
it so cute I used to pretty much wait on
him hand and foot and now, he asks me if I
will do things for him, and ten I say sure
and then he says I will get you just
relax. I love him so much and we have
been through so much
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Chrystal
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Aug 2005 Posts: 33
Posted: 08-16-05 14:10pm
Aww, you are welcome, one of the good
things of being pregnant hehe, being
waited on ;)
men are sweet at these times as I have
come to find out. Treated like little
delicate flowers hehe.
I remember being scared of telling my
partner about the big news, but he was so
lovely, and often catch him smiling alot
and hugging me and touching my belly,
didn't expect any of it.
