Joined: 17 Aug 2005 Posts: 1015 Location: NSW Australia
Can Anyone Give Me Any Advise On How to Get Over My Shyness Posted: 08-17-05 09:48am
Lately my partner seems to be getting more
enjoyment from his hand sitting in front
of favourite "flog off" site!!!
Can anyone give me any advise on how to
get over my shyness on making the first
move??
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 08-19-05 16:25pm
To be honest, with me at least I know that
I get really shy if I am not feeling
confident about myself.
Like if I have gained a few pounds, or
feel insecure. I realize that when I am
confident and happy with the way I look or
feel I am much more the pursuer.
That is just from my personal experience.
Could that be similar with you.?? If it
is, I notice that when I eat right, and
exercise I feel so much better. Also
trying doing some stuff for yourself, like
a new hair cut, outfit or whatever else
makes you feel good.
Also as lame as it sounds daily
affirmations are great. Look in the
mirror and tell yourself that you are sexy
and any guy would be lucky to have you.
Tell yourself that your outgoing and are
going to put yourself out there.
Once again if this doesnt pertain to you
than ignore the post. Just trying to
help the best way I can.
Good luck.
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pixma
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2005 Posts: 1015 Location: NSW Australia
Thank You Posted: 08-21-05 06:06am
No you are absolutely right!!!
I need to feel comfortable with myself
first to get over it!!
Thanks for your help!! I know exactly
what to do!!:-)
