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LonnieMc

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Joined: 22 Nov 2003
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Location: Covington, La
Need Help!!!!!!
Posted: 11-25-03 15:42pm
About a month ago I found out my wife is seeing somebody else. We still live together and sleep in the same bed. She says it because the other person makes her feel good about herself.

I have tried everything I can think of to fix the problem, but she just won't talk to me about it. She just wants to be friends.
And on top of it all, she has to have a complete hystorectomy in a week. She has been having problems now for about six months. I am not sure if that could be part of the reason she is running around or not. I keep asking her to if we have a future together still. She only says "give me time to get my hormones straight".

I just don't know what to do, we have 3 kids, and I love my wife very much and don't want to loose her.

Can anybody help????? Crying or Very sad
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qt3

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2003
Posts: 264

Posted: 11-27-03 01:55am
I can't help but that's got to be really tough on you and I hope she comes around and you guys are able to salvage things. Regardless of what happens I would try and put your three kids interest first. Good luck!

Q
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karen kay

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Joined: 02 Dec 2003
Posts: 2
Location: kentwood,louisiana

Posted: 12-02-03 14:27pm
Hi! I know I am not married but I am in a two year relationship not counting the few breakups. Anyway, I know how you feel to have the one person you love and would do anything for go running around..It made me feel worthless like I was the worst girlfriend ever and I didnt make him happy. I was suicidal from it. Our difference is your still with your wife and you have kids so I know its hard to think of her seeing someone else while you are still with her but I dont think you should throw it all away. Try to work it out. She may come to her senses and realize that she doesnt need anyone else but you. I know the wait is hard but if you love that person it worth it to see if things will work out. I am having trouble now also so I am here for you if that helps Wink
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