Someone Plez Answer Me. Preferably a Man Posted: 08-21-05 22:12pm
This is a weird question but I have to
ask. First let me say I am not your
typacal wife. I am ok with my husband
watching porn and sometimes I watch it
with him.
I have several questions I want to ask.
So please someone answer
my husband and I have been married for
10months and are expecting our first
child. Several months ago I realized
that our sex life really was not all that
great so I suggested that we go to the
adult store and see if we could find
anything that would spice it up. First
it was lingerie than it became a vibrator
then it became porn. Now I know that
most people are like what the hell this
woman is crazy for being ok with porn well
I am. Which brings me to my new problem
I am now 8 months pregnant and as you can
imagine I am pretty big well just my belly
is anyway. So I told my husband that I
pretty much cant have sex anymore. I
mean I don’t intend on leaving him
hanging.
Well here is my problem I am bipolar so
as you can imagine sometimes I can lose my
temper, be jealous of stupid things and be
really insecure of myself. Well now that
I have gave him permission to watch that
stuff I am terrified that he will become
addicted to it and not want me anymore.
See I also know that I brought this upon
myself because he had given up porn to be
with me, but then like I said I wanted to
please him and do what ever it took to
better our relationship. I am not going
to lie and pretend that before I worried
about him getting addicted I liked
watching it to. I mean I loved how we
would watch it and then we would re-enact
whatever scene we really liked (well the
ones that I could do anyway). I am also
afraid that he really doesn’t find me
attractive like he once did even though my
body has changed for the good lets just
say went from a c to d. I know that he
loves me but sometimes I am just so scared
that he will hurt me the way other people
have and the way that he did once upon a
time. After I explained to him that what
he was doing was wrong and hurting me he
quit.
Ok if you’re a man replying I want you
to answer this.
Your wife or girlfriend is pregnant and
she can’t really be intimate the way
that she once could but here is the catch
she still manages to get the both of you
off it’s a long process but it happens.
As if you didn’t already know this is
about me and my husband.
Which of the following do you do?
She tells you that it is ok to watch porn
with or without her.
Which do you do?
She tells you that you can jack off to
porn or a movie that she made for you.
Which one do you choose?
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samy444
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 72
Posted: 08-22-05 02:58am
I am a guy, you said that you are 8 months
pregnant so it is only matter of weeks and
you will be due, if I am your husband and
I love you too much I would choose to stop
my sexual activities for those weeks (man
can survive without sex for few weeks) and
tell you that this will make us just miss
each other more and when the time comes to
have sex again it will be more spicy and
like a new honey moon
may be I will jack off few times when I am
really horny, but without making you feel
guilty
my opinion.......
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 788 Location: US
Thank You Posted: 08-22-05 06:09am
Thank you, I think that he feels that way
but to be honest sometimes im not so sure.
I know that we need to probably stop but
like I said for the first four months it
only happend every once and a while then
5-8 its been happing alot. So I feel
kinda resposible for all of this.
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samy444
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 72
Posted: 08-22-05 12:55pm
Just dont push yourself too much, I think
you are just a sensitive person (which is
good) and you love him so much, but
believe me we can survive without sex for
sometimes (unless ofcourse of you are the
kind of unresistable girl ;)
dont worry too much, just think about your
new baby
hope you will have a safe and easy
delivery
let us know how things going with you
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 788 Location: US
Ok Posted: 08-22-05 13:26pm
:d well to here him tell it I am that kind
of woman and he says that is why it is so
hard not to want to have sex all the time.
He says look at how fast you got pregnant
1 month after being married.
I pray to I am 33wks today so I am almost
there.
So are you the guy that wrote what are all
the things woman look for in a man? If so
I will reply to you.
Also why do you ask?
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samy444
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 72
Posted: 08-22-05 14:10pm
He is lucky guy then to have you.
Yes I am the guy with question about hot
men, I read your reply, thanks for that
and actually I am asking because I really
wonder why some girls get very attracted
to some guy who look really normal, for
girls it is more or less obvious if a girl
is hot 99% of the guys will think the
same, but in the men case it really
varies, thats why I was wondering, and
actually I have got replies that really
made me surprised, I hope the girls who
replied were serious about what they are
saying
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angel6932
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 788 Location: US
All True Posted: 08-22-05 21:45pm
I was speaking the truth on my half and I
would say almost all the woman that wrote
you were honest to. We care about looks
but not as much as men do and well its not
the parts that you would think ether.
I mean well men worry about girls boobs or
her legs or even her butt. But woman its
much deeper than that. Well sometimes but
I guess anyone can be that way.
:lol: its funny and I have to say this
but my husband is a boob man and well when
we meet I was a b then by the time that we
got married I became a c and now that I am
pregnant I am a d. It's like I told him
love the person and you will be supprised
on what could happen. What I am saying is
he loved me not just for looks but my
personality and now look he got something
extra out of the deal, and as for my
husband being lucky to have me he could
have done better. But I am glad that he
chose me. 8) :d
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Keehiaangel
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Joined: 24 Jul 2005 Posts: 184
Funny Posted: 08-23-05 11:27am
My husband is a boob man and I went from a
c to dd all in three months so he is like
h*** yeah
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angel6932
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Agree Posted: 08-23-05 20:02pm
I guess its with every man :d
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samy444
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 72
Posted: 08-24-05 01:00am
You went from c to dd in 3 months???
I am interested to know how does this
happened
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jenjsmith
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Aug 2005 Posts: 26
Posted: 08-24-05 01:34am
Angel my hubby and I had the same problem.
I am bipolor too, only diff. I was
restricted from having sex. High risk
pregnancy. It all worked out fine in the
end (we now have a healthy 8 month old
girl). And unless your doc said no sex
you can have it up to the day you deliver,
you just have to be creative :)
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angel6932
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Joined: 07 Aug 2005 Posts: 788 Location: US
Thank You Posted: 08-26-05 12:36pm
Ok, for some reason I am just getting your
reply so thank you and I will try to be
more crative.
