After a couple decides that they are in love and believe that they have found their soul mate, by how much time (approx) should they have informed their parents about their choice?
1 - 2 months
100%
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5-6 months
0%
[ 0 ]
immediate
0%
[ 0 ]
1 year later
0%
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nirupaonline
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2005 Posts: 1
his parents have fixed his marriage with another girl Posted: 08-22-05 02:30am
My guy of 4 years, who has lived with me
like a husband and we even got engaged
recently finally unceremoniously came and
informed me that his parents have fixed
his marriage with another girl. Trust me
I couldnt believe it. Loads of questions
went through my head. Why didnt he stand
up for me? If he really loved me how can
he agree to marry someone else?
I was so pissed and asked him if he would
have left me if we were legally engaged
and his parents wanted him to and he said
no. I also asked him that if I was
pregnant would he have left me and he said
no. Then I asked him what difference does
it make if I had a child, the point is
should a guy stay cause of a child or
cause of a legal tag a relationship is a
relationship and a tag is just for the
world to see. Should it be taken any less
seriously.
He is also an severe epileptic patient
whose liver is about 70% spoilt and they
have not informed the girl (his future
wife) about the whole truth. I mean I
took care of him when he was sick for so
long, did his dirty laundry, cooked meals
for him, had sex with him, went out. All
of a sudden when he left me, without even
fighting with his parents over me I
seriously felt like this was child's play.
We had got engaged a couple of weeks
earlier and I cannot believe it that he
let himself get engaged to some other
female (i dont give a damn about her).
He is clearly a backboneless piece of crap
who considered the relationship like a
child's pretend play game and was using me
for everything. Oh man I am on a row now
and hate him for doing this to me. But
more than that I was a fool to let myself
get involved in it in the first place.