I Busted Them On His B-day Posted: 08-22-05 17:36pm
My name is crystal I am 19, and am in the
navy I have been seeing my fiance for
about 3an a half years. August 21 was his
birthday so I stopped by his house to
spend the morning and night with him,and
wake him up with some very needed t l c
but instead I was the one with the wake up
call when I walked through the front door
at 6:00am there in our bed he layed with
another girl he told me that he didnt do
anything!!!! But why do I still love
him and why do I feel like I need to take
him back was it something that I did? Was
it something that I didnt do right? If
anybody has any input on this plz feel
free to comment. Thanx ps could not
help myself so I hit the both of them a
couple of times :evil:
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 08-22-05 18:09pm
Why was she in his bed if they didn't do
anything? Think about it. And even if
they didn't do anything her being in bed
with him is pretty clear that something
was intended to happen but for what ever
reason maybe didn't. Whatever you decide
to do is up to you. Just because he hurt
you doesn't mean your feelings for him are
going to disappear just like that which is
why you still love him and the need to
take him back could be because you two
have been together for 3 years and without
him things just don't feel right. But I
know if I were you i'd be wondering how
long this had been going on and if you
hadn't walked in on them how long it would
have continued to go on behind your back.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 08-22-05 20:38pm
You might still love him but do you still
have the same respect for him, can you
really trust him like you did before?
The only way to get over one is by meeting
someone else, don't you fell you deserve
better? After all, it is your choice.
Good luck!
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vanessalouanne
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Joined: 31 May 2005 Posts: 2268 Location: ,
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Posted: 08-23-05 17:33pm
Oh hell no dump his as$... Are you
kidding me. I love my husband to death
but if I ever caught him cheating on my
i'd cut his dick off. If he is sleeping
around behind your back think of the stds
he could give you... And you being in the
navy. What do you think is happening
when your on float? Seriously, you know
what to do. It may hurt but this guy is
a peice of sh*t.
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blackwinded
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Sep 2005 Posts: 45 Location: US of A
Posted: 09-08-05 04:17am
I agree with vannessa. I don' think you
should give this guy a second chance, but
I guess that's just my opinion. This
probably isn't the first time he's cheated
on you. He may be sleeping around with
other girls or have been sleeping with
this one for who knows how long! Im
sorry, im just really sensitive to this
kind of thing right now. I've been very
suspicious lately that my boyfriend is
cheating on me. If I ever find out that
he is, I will not look back. I will pack
my bags and move back home with my mom. I
wont give him the time of day. I wont let
him treat me like that!
-becka
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Interia
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2005 Posts: 28 Location: USA
Posted: 09-08-05 05:48am
Talk first, dump next. If he can't give
you a good reason over why she was in bed,
then leave him and focus on finding
someone good in your life who won't do
something like that.
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