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Q: Here to Help If I Can
asked by: kazzajean on August 23rd, 2005
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Ok. So im 25 years old pregnant with my third child. I have been through more health question than you can imagine. I have been raped at 13, pregnant at 15, abortion at 18, sexual assaulted at 21, pregnant again at 21, ingaged, dumped, 2 car crashes( 1 were I broke my pelvis and cocks bone). Lost all my mates, now here I am again at 25 pregnant and single again. But you know something I have got through every little thing by myself and I wana help any one who has suffered any of the things I have been through, you see alot of girls trying to kill them selves over 1 thing. So if any one has any questions on anything im here to help and talk about my recovery through it all and how you can to.
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lazybabe_02
replied on August 24th, 2005
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Well I feel very weird sleeping with my boyfreind because when I was sevon I was raped well my mom was heald at gun point so it scares my expecilly now that I think I might be pregnet
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sxcgirl_me
replied on August 24th, 2005
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You are a really really good person,
good on you for being such a strong person.

I myself have been through a lot of hell in my life, but a lot of it was when I was around 9 so I didnt really think much of it then.

I have had cancer twice, first in the kidney and the second time in the liver.
The cancer has left me with one kidney that only works 60% of what it should and let me tell you, it gets really depressing sometimes.
I'd really love to be able to go out and drink like normal people my age without getting hassled about it and without getting kidney infections all the time and needing to go to the hospital.

I was also raped I think it was when I was 16.
For some reason it didnt really leave me with a big impact, I think in my mind it doesn't seem like a big thing compared to everything else.

I did go to the cops though and got it taken care of.
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lazybabe_02
replied on August 24th, 2005
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Well I just got told I have skin cancer and I think im to young and I think I might be prego and that scares me to even though I want a baby right now I dont know what to do :oops:
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sxcgirl_me
replied on August 25th, 2005
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Omg, in your situation I wouldn't even consider it.

If you are pregnant there is no way you can keep the baby and have chemo at the same time.
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fatfamily02
replied on August 25th, 2005
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lazybabe_02 wrote:
well I just got told I have skin cancer and I think im to young and I think I might be prego and that scares me to even though I want a baby right now I dont know what to do :oops:


if you are pregnant I suggest you read up on skin cancer on the internet, cuz you cannot get chemo if preg. But I dont think skin cancer is even near as dangerous as some of the other cancers, waiting until after birth might not be a problem at all. Pple have it for many years with no effects at all, only to find a dr one day who says---hhuumm that mole looks like cancer--lets get a biopsy. Try and not worry too much, also bad for the baby.

God bless you--god help her in jesus name.
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sxcgirl_me
replied on August 25th, 2005
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It all depends on what kind of cancer it is.

Melanoma is extremely dangerous therefore it would be idiotic to just leave it, I think most other skin cancers arent that dangerous though.
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