And yes I am 16 and going to be a teen
mom, I know from experience that you need
to be careful, you stupid b*tch.
I'm not jumping on these girl's back for
nothing you person, im going through it,
trying to prevent what happend to me.
And even though it's none of your
business.
I can afford a child, I have my own car
and my license and am taking ged classes,
i'm a few teen mom's that actually try.
My kid isn't going to end up in some
foster home and my parents are going to be
raising it. You have to give up
everything to raise a child, i'm one of
the few people that actually know and
realize this, if you want to try to make a
point, go to the topics to where girls are
trying to get pregnant.
I might be only 16, but at least I was
responsible enough to use protection, I
used my head. And even though I used
protection, look what happend? Even
though i'll love my child with everything
I have, I still got sh*t on.
I'm going to be a teen mom, I have a job
and I make great money, i'll be able to
afford a child when I can no longer work,
i'll have my ged which is as good as a
highschool diploma, I have a car and dont
rely on people to do the work for me. I'd
say i'll be one hell of a parent.
I'm not judging anyone or trying to jump
on anybody's back to diss them, i'm
telling them to simply not do something if
you havent had experience in it,
especially if your not responsible enough
to use protection, if girls were more
careful, there wouldnt be posts like this,
but they brought it upon themselves and as
I said, i'm going through it which gives
me a right to pass out useful advice.
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it seems to me that some of these people
on here only tell the negative parts of
being a mother.They forget to include the
moments you have with your child that
can't be compared to any other feeling.The
first time hearing your babies heartbeat
and knowing that you can give life to
something as miraculous as a human-being
who will love you no matter what, beats
having to pay for the expenses of a child
and devoting your life to them.The girl
above me states that "if your not
responsible enough to use protection then
dont have sex." but the funny thing about
this is that she too is in this position,
she's 16 and about to be a teen mom?.. Im
15 and about to be a mommy and I sure as
hell didnt want somebody preaching to
me.Especially coming from a hypocrit.Think
before you speak. I know that I made a
decision that will affect me 4 the rest of
my life but I have enough guts to stand up
and say that nothing negative comes along
with being a mother.I am a junior in
highschool and yes I do plan on finishing
highschool and attending the university of
tennessee and becoming a pediatrician.So
before anyone else wants to post something
along these lines "i can afford a child, I
have my own car and my license and am
taking ged classes, i'm a few teen mom's
that actually try. My kid isn't going to
end up in some foster home and my parents
are going to be raising it. You have to
give up everything to raise a child, i'm
one of the few people that actually know
and realize this, if you want to try to
make a point, go to the topics to where
girls are trying to get pregnant." please
consider your situation and the situation
of others.
People are different and have different
opinions, if you dont like my posts, dont
read them.
Simple.
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TheGoodStuff89
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2005 Posts: 177 Location: TN
Posted: 08-23-05 18:42pm
Did I ever use the statement "i dont like
your posts".. Im telling you my point of
view on how much of a hypocrit you sound
like in your posts. And again.. Think
before you speak sweetheart
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sxcgirl_me
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 372 Location: Sydney - Australia
Posted: 08-24-05 02:33am
This girl has a really really bad
attitude.
You know you treat these girls like they
are a piece of caca and you can just pick
on them for your entertainment.
But guess what, just like the both of us,
they have feelings as well.
These girls are scared and confused and
are coming to this group for advice and
support, not to get their heads bitten
off.
Are you even pregnant, or do you just come
here looking for a good time.
I'm sorry if I come off as a b*tch but I
honestly don't try to be. I think my way
of making things clear, are giving an
attitude to you.
People need to start using their common
sense, asking if they're pregnant is one
thing, but wanting to get pregnant at 13
or 15 is ridiculous.
I just turned 17 and I can't even imagine
how hard it's going to be, I believe and
don't believe in so many things, but
still, I know it's going to be hard, it's
hard to explain it to people because
they'll never understand until it's
happend, including myself. Even though I
have a niece, it's not the same. When I
get aggrivated with her, I can always give
her to my sister or my mom. I can't do
that when I have a child of my own.
I'm not going to argue with anyone like I
have been, because it's obvious no one
listens, and that's sad because when they
do listen, it will be too late.
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sxcgirl_me
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 372 Location: Sydney - Australia
Posted: 08-24-05 21:26pm
Yea ok, there is nothing wrong with you
giving advice. Just do it nicely, not in
the harsh blunt way you do it.
These 13 - 15 year old girls just dont
realise what they want yet and sooner or
later when they are older they will know
they made a mistake by thinking that.
And you should never teach your child to
hate, you should teach your child the
value of life and the value of living, not
how not to be a prostitute who gets
pregnant at 13.
What would you do if your child
accidentally got pregnant at 13?
Would you boot her out onto the streets,
no I dont think you would, would you?
Just have a little more compassion for
these girls ok?
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woried_friend
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2005 Posts: 6 Location: washington lacey
Wow Posted: 08-24-05 23:50pm
Ok look 13 is a big age so I 14 it is a
age of experimenting and knowing and
learning what it is like to become a woman
so the girls who get pregnantat 13 and 14
some of the girls it isnt their fault if
anyone is nasty it is them nasty chicks on
maury
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sxcgirl_me
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 372 Location: Sydney - Australia
Posted: 08-25-05 00:01am
How old are you?
13 is not a big age.
It is in a way but not for getting
pregnant!!! Are you out of your mind.
No maybe it isn't their faults all the
time, but at 13 a lot of 13 year olds
aren't too well educated on the dangers of
sex.
I wasn't educated until high school when I
was about 15,
i lost my virginity when I was about 14
and I tell you, I am so glad I didnt have
my period back then because I didnt know
that much about sex and did it unprotected
which was silly.
At 13 you are still a child going out with
friends and stuff.
My child won't get pregnant by "accident"
at 13 because accidents shouldn't happen,
honestly. If you think your responsible
enough to be having sex, then you need to
be responsible enough to use condoms.
However, I have nothing to worry about
because i'm having a boy.
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TheGoodStuff89
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2005 Posts: 177 Location: TN
Re: .... Posted: 08-25-05 15:08pm
dalicialynn
wrote:
my child won't get pregnant
by "accident" at 13 because accidents
shouldn't happen, honestly. If you
think your responsible enough to be having
sex, then you need to be responsible
enough to use condoms.
However, I have nothing to worry about
because i'm having a
boy.
did you use a condom along with your birth
control?What were those words the doctor
spoke when he prescribed you birth
control-"birth control is not 100%
effective,you still have a chance of
becoming pregnant." now sweetheart you
werent doing everything in your power to
not become pregnant. It's called
abstinence, the only sure way of not
getting pregnant.You keep putting all
these girls down because they didnt use
protection, it was there choice to not use
protection and for whatever reason is none
of your business.Pregnancy is pregnancy,
no matter how you got here. And you say
you have nothing to worry about because
your having a boy.. Haha the only thing
you dont have to worry about is your
daughter getting pregnant, you only thing
you have to worry about your son getting
someone else's daughter pregnant.
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sxcgirl_me
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 372 Location: Sydney - Australia
Posted: 08-25-05 19:21pm
And your saying that accidents wont
happen?
What are going to do? Chaperone your kid
in the bedroom? :)
i'd like to see that.
No matter how much you try to teach your
kid about unprotected sex, it wont matter
because in the end your child will either
take your advice, or leave it and you wont
be able to do anything about it!!!!
Getting pregnant is never an accident, you
either do it on purpose or it happens for
a reason.
And honestly, the doctor never told me
that there's a possibility I could still
get pregnant, he told me it won't protect
me from aids and std's which I understood.
People get on birth control for it being
a comfort to them knowing they couldnt get
pregnant, it usually not works for the
simple fact that your not using it
correctly.
I was on brith control for 6 months before
I got pregnant. Explain that one to me?
If my son wants to go and stick his penis
in things then more power to him, but guys
are usually more responsible when it comes
to the whole pregnancy thing. (from the
people I know personally) if he knocks a
girl up, it's his choice by all means.
He's his own person and can make his own
decisions, but i'll personally kick his
butt if he doesn't take responsibility.
You play you pay!
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sxcgirl_me
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 372 Location: Sydney - Australia
Posted: 08-25-05 23:29pm
On bc for 6 months?
Haha, do you know what it takes for a girl
to get pregnant without brith control?
Usually a lot longer than that, so by the
sounds of it, you weren't using it
properly, and whose fault is that?
You come here preaching about these girls
stupidity, why not take a look at your own
before you judge other people.
You are not better than the other girls
here just because you tried to prevent
it.
Did you use a condom, im betting 10 bucks
that you didn't.
If you were really that scared about
getting pregnant you would have used that
on top of bc.
Actually, it depends how the girl's body
works. It doesnt take forever every time.
Don't you watch maury? Look at all the
girls that had one night stands with a boy
and got pregnant. It only takes one time,
and as I said, it all depends how your
body works.
I did use it properly, i'm positive of
that. You're not the person to tell me
how I used it, and how I didn't.
Yes, i'm such an immature stupid pregnant
evil b*tch.
Now maybe you can get that out of your
head and quit b*tching. Who cares? I
don't. Lol.
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sxcgirl_me
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 372 Location: Sydney - Australia
Posted: 08-26-05 01:52am
Hey look love, I aint the one health
forum, you come her being an ignorant cow
and caca all over these people and then
turn around and say that im the one health
forum? How does work.
And I bet you that im just saying what all
these girls are thinking of you anyway.
Why would I care what a bunch of girls on
the internet think about me? Give me 1
good reason.
This forum is full of 12 year olds wanting
to get pregnant, do you think I care what
they would think of me? Ohh boo hoo i'm
an immature 17 year old thats pregnant.
Im going to be a horrible mother and beat
my child.
I'm crying, honest.
Sorry I don't care as much as you wanted
me too, but obviously, i'm not getting my
panties in a bunch just because of an
opinion I didn't agree with.
If anyone is b*tching, it's you. You're
the one complaining about my posts.
Lol.
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sxcgirl_me
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 372 Location: Sydney - Australia
Posted: 08-26-05 02:20am
Well obviously your panties are up in
bunch.
Other wise you wouldn't be pregnant
:roll:
and your only getting whats coming to ya
because you complain about everybody elses
post lol
and do you think I really give a care
wether you think my opinion is correct or
not?
No because I know in the end, your gonna
be a little 18 years old with a baby and
you wont know what to do with yourself,
haha
