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Q: One Year Later....
asked by: cutiekel0809 on August 23rd, 2005
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It will be one year tomorrow (weds 8/24) that my husband and I found out our baby had a fatal fetal defect called hydrocephaly. An on friday it will be one year that we lost him. We know he is in gods hands but it just hurts soooooo much. Has anyone else been thru this? Please help

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fatfamily02
replied on August 23rd, 2005
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God bless you both and all who mourn with you--

anymore in the making? Are you planning on it?

Im sorry I havent experienced that but I have lost 6 children thru miscarriage--mostly early on. But one who was 4 months and it was really hard for me. God is all the help I needed, and without him I could still cry every time I spoke of my baby. I was blessed to conceive again right away after all of my miscarriages and that helped me to heal also.
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cutiekel0809
replied on August 24th, 2005
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Thank you so much for your advise. I am feeling better about things, I dont find myself crying so much but it still hurts. I really only get emotional around important times (due date, mothers day). But my hubby and I know that god is in control and that he gave us this knowing that there would be someone who would see us and be touched and blessed and maybe even saved. I may never know but I pray we have touched someone. I am so sorry about your losses. We had another in march. So I know what it is to lose early on. But I know the hurt to lose a child so late, our son was 11 weeks when we found out. Right now we are ttc and in gods time it will happen. Thanks so much for letting me type and type and type. :) I appreciate your help. Keep in touch. I would love to give you my email address; do you have aol?? Thanks again. I appreciate it more than you know. To hear that I am not the only one makes it easier... Not neccesarily better because there is someone else and so for that I am sorry. But I have inspired from you just as I pray ppl are from our story. I will let you know how things go. Ttyl...

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