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lovely22
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Pain During Sex
Posted: 08-24-05 12:49pm
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I am 22 and married. For the past few
months now when ever my hubby have sex, I
get a sharp shooting pain in my abdomen.
In some positions it doesn't hurt but most
of the time it's so painfull that I don't
look forward to haveing it. I use to
enjoy sex a lot. But now I hate to even
think of the idea. Before I met my
husbend I never had this problem.
Sometimes I wonder if it's because of his
size. But at the same time I don't thunk
thats the reason it can't be that simple.
Please if anyone has any advise as to what
it might be I would love to know.
Thank you
nicole
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MOMMA4LIFE
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Could Be His Size....
Posted: 08-31-05 22:30pm
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Or it could be having to do with your
female parts. My friend has to have a
hysterectomy - her uterus and cervix have
dropped so far that it's pains her to have
sex. Have you seen a doctor and had an
internal exam?
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lovely22
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Posted: 09-07-05 16:04pm
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No but I am setting up an appt soon to get
everything looked over. Thank you for
responding to my question.
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chaosbob
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Posted: 09-07-05 16:31pm
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Sounds like a tilted cervix.
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manalye
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Posted: 09-12-05 22:51pm
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I'm sorry... I know your diagnosis is a
private matter, but i'm having a similar
problem so I was hoping you might share
what you found out from your doctor. I'd
just like an idea of what's going on.
Thanks!
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teach486
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Posted: 09-13-05 08:42am
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Sometimes pains like this can be caused by
your bf's penis hitting your cervix, which
can indeed be very painful. I have had
this kind of pain before during sex in
certain positions. My cervix and uterus
are what they call retroflexed, meaning
they tilt towards my back.
My sister has the same thing. The gyno
told her that for more comfortable sex she
could try propping a pillow under her butt
during sex. I guess this helps to control
how the penis enters and moves in and out
of the vagina.
Either way, just to be safe, still see
your doc to make sure you don't have any
cysts, or other problems. Keep us posted.
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DayLynn
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Re: Pain During Sex
Posted: 09-17-05 15:52pm
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| lovely22
wrote: | i am 22 and married. For
the past few months now when ever my hubby
have sex, I get a sharp shooting pain in
my abdomen. In some positions it doesn't
hurt but most of the time it's so painfull
that I don't look forward to haveing it.
I use to enjoy sex a lot. But now I hate
to even think of the idea. Before I met
my husbend I never had this problem.
Sometimes I wonder if it's because of his
size. But at the same time I don't thunk
thats the reason it can't be that simple.
Please if anyone has any advise as to
what it might be I would love to know.
Thank you
nicole |
I think it is because
of your parters penis size because my
boyfriend has a big one and I have that
problem
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jesticle
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Posted: 09-18-05 01:56am
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It may be endometriosis pain during sex is
one of the symptoms I had the same thing
my partner and I have been together for 18
months and it was never a problem but
about 7 months ago it got really bad the
thought of sex hurts! And I didnt think
anything of it untill I realised I wasnt
getting pregnant so I got it checked out
and well ive got it at first it was only
painfull sex and periods now its
everything. Just speak to your doctor,
good luck and take care
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alphablu82
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Painful Sex
Posted: 09-20-05 09:37am
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I have had this before also....You know
when you go to the gyno and she checks
your cervix to see if it is ok, then you
get a really strange feeling in your
stomach...It's the same with sex. When
having intercourse you may get "bumped"
the wrong way. It may be that your
husband is hitting your cervix. Ask the
doc about this to make sure and tell them
all the symptoms.
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buttercup_501
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Posted: 09-22-05 18:03pm
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I had the same type of pain. It felt like
his penis was hitting my stomach and I
thought I was going to vomit. It was from
him hitting my cervix!!
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Anorexia
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Abdominal Pain
Posted: 09-27-05 18:57pm
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Hi,
i didn't read all the replies before
responding, so i'm sorry if I repeat what
someone else said (although it could
reassure you to find out how you're so not
alone with this issue).
I get that abdominal pain as well,
especially when in doggy-style position.
I had the pain with my ex, but not with
other partners. I once read what a
sexologist said about this, that in some
positions the vagina becomes sort of
shorter and you are more prone to feel
pain. If it happens only while
penetration at ''in'' and the pain goes
away completely a couple of minutes after
intercourse is over, personnally i'd say
it's normal, there's nothing wrong with
you.
From my experience, yes it depends on
partner's genital size and shape, and can
hurt in some position with one but in
another position with another. Also, with
my ex sometimes I was afraid to do
doggy-style because afraid of the pain,
but i'd do it anyway and sometimes it
would actually not hurt, I don't know
exactly why, but I was very greatful and
appreciative when it went well!
Unless an expert tells you otherwise, I
suppose the only option is to have your
partner not go too deep inside you when
you are in a position that causes you the
abdo pain...
Good luck, please let me know if you find
out other explanations/tips from good
source!
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Lilypad
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Posted: 10-10-05 01:05am
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Your gyno can tell you if you have a
tipped uterus. I have one and so do
about 1 in 5 women, some positions may
hurt and the time of your cycle will
probably have some effect also
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BreBaby
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Posted: 10-24-05 22:38pm
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Hi i'm a 23 year old female.I have
realized since i've been married (1 year)
i've been experiencing some pain during
sex almost near the time of my period.
Certain sex positions feel very
uncomfortable to me. I can feel it the
worst when i'm on top or when he his on
top with my legs up. Futher a few days
to a week before my period everything is
fine again.
Can someone please shower some light on
this situation, i'm really starting to get
concerned.
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Mich
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Posted: 10-24-05 23:09pm
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I get pain during intercourse if I have a
uti. It can be extremely painful.
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Lilypad
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Posted: 10-25-05 01:02am
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The pain you feel could be any of or
acombination of all these responses. Your
best bet is to get a pelvic exam and ask
lots of questions.
Dont automatically assume your doc will
tell you if you have a tipped uterus,
he/she may assume you already know.
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Kitty Muggins
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Oh Thank Goodness..i Hope.
Posted: 10-25-05 12:00pm
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I feel the same pain in doggy-style. Like
anorexia. I was so afaid sumthing might
have been wrong but I think its just him
hitting my cervix. He is well endowed.
:d I though it might b from early uterus
swelling from pregnancy. I may b preg. I
dunno.
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