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Q: Im Being Punished
asked by: mommy of 1 on August 26th, 2005
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Well it was another negative this month :cry: I know we have not been trying for long but I hate when only one line shows up, its such a let down :( I go to the docs on the 30th to talk about my chances of getting preg, I think this is gods way of punishing me for getting preg young :cry: anyways sorry about the whining, I will be better tomarrow im throwing myself a mini pity party :lol: my hubby is no help he just saya it will happen in due time,it makes no differenc to him when it happens :lol: he does not understand what it is like when women are set on having a baby its all I think about, we went to a street carnval tonight with my daughter and 1 year old cousin and it killed me, I just wanted to take him home, anyways sorry about the ranting, ill try again next month
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xhannax
replied on August 26th, 2005
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Im so sorry you didnt get pregnant-:( you could still get preg next time round-
getting pregnant young is not a sin- god wont punish you for that.Why would he?It isnt like you did something bad, like hurt somebody or killed somebody or stealed.Those things are sins, getting pregnant is just something that happend .
Anyway, good luck with everything and good luck for the 30th, ..I hope you feel better soon:) :wink:
xxhanna
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teach486
replied on August 27th, 2005
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Keep trying! Please don't allow yourself to get too discouraged. Here is my story to help you.

Before divorcing due to fighting, my ex hubby and I considered children. I quit taking my pill. I had been on the pill consistently for 12 years. We were only married for that year I was off the pill, and luckily I didn't get pregnant.

After the divorce I had pretty much settled on being single the rest of my life with a few bed companions here and there to suit my needs. I went back on the pill again.

I guess god had other plans for me. Out of the blue I hooked up with a wondeful man. We quickly fell in love, and are to be married in october. We discussed children, and since I am not getting any younger (having turned 30 this month) we decided for me to go ahead and quit taking my pill in july. The first day of my last period was july 12. I should have started my pills again on the 16 or 17th.

Well, here I am, pregnant! I am due on/around april 18th. We have always heard that it takes awhile to get pregnant after being on the pill for so long because the woman needs to regulate. Ha! So, anyway, just keep trying, and good luck!
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teach486
replied on August 27th, 2005
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Oh, and I forgot to mention. I got pregnant with my daughter when I was 15, and had her when I was 16. No, god is not punishing you. Just keep trying. After sex it helps to just lay in bed, even putting a pillow under your backside to elevate it upward, helping to keep the sperm from dripping out.
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Pooh-Bear-2000
replied on August 27th, 2005
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Sorry you didn't get a positive this month. My husband and i've been ttc for about two months now and this month was my second negative. I know it is discouraging! I can't imagine how the people feel that have been trying for years. We will get pregnant when it's our time! I'm on my 5th day of my period so in about a week, it will be time to try again. Hope all goes well for you and keep me posted...:-)
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mama17
replied on August 27th, 2005
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You know sometimes they say that when you don't try soo hard to get pregnant is the best time I got pregnant and wasn't even trying but it will happen just leave it up to god believe me it will so don't worry he'll give you a little one when you don't even expect it.
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mommy of 1
replied on August 27th, 2005
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Thank you all so much, I feel a little better today, it is just the day I find out im soooooooo depressed, ilol keep trying though, I want another baby to bad to quit, but thanks for all your kind words, it really helps to have people to talk to, good luck to all who are trying
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