So Alone Feeling...am I?

She would not be throwing up every day this soon, you are right!

She may be sick over the break up though. When my boyfriend had broken up with me out of nowhere one day, I was sick, couldnt eat, and it delayed my period a whole week, just from the stress. The thought of pregnancy went through my mind, but I never ended up being pregnant.

She is either just so emotionally stresses, shes making herself sick, or shes thinking that by doing this, you will stay.

The fact that she is on the pill makes the chances of her being pregnant very very very slim. Even if she did end up pregnant, it would be way too soon to tell.

I looked on the internet and only one site said that women may feel morning sickness starting only a few days after conception. But that one site was enough to put doubt in my mind.

I am really freaked out, because an added twist to the story is that she also last week accused me (on that one fateful night) or "forcing" her to have sex. She described a perfect rape situation to me, and said how someone could "interpret" what happened that night in that way.

Everything that was done that night was consentual, and I am sure that she said that out of anger....As she said she blows things up when she is mad. Through conversations with her, she sent me an e-mail a couple of days later say ing how she was very wrong to say such things, and that I definitely did not force her, and that she was very sorry.

But I don;t know how to handle this siutation where I feel the need and desire to talk with her about this, but am scared that she will blow up and do bad things.

I don't know if this makes it seem even more likely that she is lying to me ?

Thank you so much for your reply...I don;t have anyone to talk to about this, and you are the first one to try and see my side of it. Truly, thank you.

Hmm well, definitely save that email. If she does try to accuse you, that email would be very very important.


If I were you, I would not try to talk to her any further. Ignore her and totally disconnect yourself. She will start to think that even negative attention from you, will be good enough attention for her. She will try to do things to make you angry, just so that you respond to her. Any attention is good attention for her.


It is possible to feel sick right after conception, but its usually like dizzyness, upset stomach, slight back pains, things like that. The majority of women do not get morning sickness until the 6th week of pregnancy.

With her being this crazy and so willing to make things up... I would be worried about her lying about being on the pill. Have you ever seen her birth control? Have you ever seen her take it? I dont want to worry you more than you already are, but this girl doesnt seem all that right in the head!

Assuming she is taking her birth control, the chances of her being pregnant are very very slim and you shouldnt really worry about it!

The sickness is from the release of hormones and some women might actually get really sick really early on, while others never get the sickness. She may or may not be lying to you about this. I notice anyone who will blow things out of proportion will always exaggerate things also. She might feel little sick--and tell you she threw up for days!!

The pill I also know if you do not take it everyday--at the same time every day it is very possible to get pregnant while taking it.

I hope for your sake she is lying--but I believe some women do know within a couple of days and do experience some of the symptoms that early on also.

Good luck hon

Since you had unprotected sex, her being pregnant is a possibility. Pulling out as a method to avoid pregnancy is a mere myth. It does not work! You mentioned she is on the pill. Do you know this for a fact? Does she take them faithfully?

It does seem a bit early for any morning sickness, but each woman reacts differently to pregnancy. Has she missed her period? Has she taken a pregnancy test? Based on everything you have told us pregnancy is a possibility, but isn't likely.

If you do not truly love this woman, my suggestion to you is to talk to her. Explain to her that you do not feel the same way towards her, and that her being pregnant is not going to change that. Please do not try to force a relationship to work out of guilt just because a child may be involved. Everyone usually just ends up being miserable on down the road and it ends in a break-up anyway.

On the other hand, also explain to her that if she is indeed pregnant and it is your child, then you will take responsibility for your child. Hopefully that is the case, that you would be willing to take responsibility for the life you created by being a part of the child's life, and paying any child support, or whatnot. This would also include making sure that the mother gets appropriate care during the pregnancy.

If it is not time for her next period yet, I would wait to see if she gets it, or not. If she doesn't, then I would suggest buying a pregnancy test for her, and being there when she takes it so that you can be there to see the results yourself. I do not know your ex girlfriend, so I am in no position to be a judge of her character. Although it may sound crazy, I have heard of cases where a woman was desperate enough to claim being pregnant to hold onto a man, even going as far as having a pregnant friend take a test to "fake" the pregnancy.

However this may turn out for you I wish you the best of luck.

It is too early it took me a while before I began feeling morning symptoms but don't worry but you still got to watch out when you have unprotected sex because there is still pre cum and with that little that comes out pregnancy can happen so use protection till ur ready to have a kid okay.

You people on this board are so supportive....I really don't know what to say.

I have tried talking with her about all of this, but she says that actions speak louder than words, and that my actions say that I am not caring about her or what she is going through. Although I do not love her, I would fully support any decisions she would make, or we would make together. We just argue about everything when we are together, with her saying she wants the person she originally knew (and evidently fell quickly in love with) back, and not the person I am now. Maybe she should have thought of that before accusing me of something which makes me feel physically illl just thinking about (rape). I think just not being in contact would be the best thing right now.

I wish I had close friends to talk with about this, but I do feel so alone. I cannot say how much all of you have done for me with these little replies you have posted. Though you don't know mw, you hear my side and can at least empathize.

I am also really frightened that one night the police would come to my door and arrest me, and I would have to deal with a defense that from my research on the internet is a very hard defense to mount (as in most cases people take the side of the accuser [rightfully so, when it is true])

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Okay well I know that its a scary positon to be in and well I don't think that it would go that far just because she's mad that you don't want to be with her and yeah staying away from her is the best thing to do. So for one thing she is not pregnant and secondly just go out and get this out of your head because if you worry yourself to much you can get sick. I mean when my baby's daddy said for about a year that he wasn't the father and then said I was with other guys hey yeah I got mad but some people get over it and she will if not well talk to someone and tell them what's going on maybe they can set her down or prove to her she's not pregnant and she just has to get over being bumped.