Hi,
i am 25 years married man.Now I have no
more interest in sex because of my
premature ejeculation.Its really
frustrating for me and my partner.Some
times I even can't go inside the vagina
before ejeculation.Is anyone here who can
give me a some advice that how to control
my ejeculation.
Regards.,
shaw
|
saglamh23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jun 2005 Posts: 61 Location: Türkiye
Posted: 08-31-05 09:08am
ı think it is related with the sensation
of the penis. ı mean every people must
have different amount of nerve endings on
it. ı have a similar situation. ı m
not a doc but just guessing. If it is
related with that, there musnt be a simple
solution to it. In the net they talk
about some solutions like kegel exc. And
stop and go method. I m not sure but
these methods may cause some problems.
ı hope time is a solution...Supposing
that some nerves will die...Eventually
they will die altogether... :(
|
cymrich
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Sep 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 09-01-05 16:39pm
I used to have a similar problem, and
found that the reason it was happening is
I was getting to "in" to the sex. I.E.
The anticipation and overwhelming
sensations were getting me so worked up
that I was done moments after I started.
I managed to figure out a way to control
this for myself by not thinking about what
I am doing, but rather, thinking of
something else. For instance... Try
doing a complex math problem in your head
while having sex... This method pretty
much allows me to control when I
ejaculate... Which can really impress
women too by the way. When I am done, I
just concentrate on what I am doing
instead of whatever I chose to think
about.
|
cymrich
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Sep 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 10-20-05 11:34am
Sounds like bs to me...
|
cd998776
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2005 Posts: 997 Location: Ohio
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
Posted: 10-20-05 19:33pm
Premature ejaculation has to deal with
your penis' sensation (as saglamh23
mentioned), your height or arousal, your
physical health, and your mental state
(ie: is it pleasing to you.). While
there are a number of products that claim
to solve this problem, most don't. The
easiest way to gain back "your control,"
is it master kegels (while this could take
some time, the results are very
promising), and trying the "stop & go
method." masturbating shorty prior to sex
will also help to extend this time.
Last edited by cd998776 on 10-22-05 18:38pm; edited 1 time in total
|
pataya6
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2006 Posts: 6 Location: Thailand
Don't Worry About It Posted: 10-19-06 13:19pm
Women don't really care how long it takes
you to ejaculate.
It's mostly a "man" problem and all in the
head.
As long as you are happy your girlfriend
will be.
That is the bottm line
[advertising removed]
|
ilovemywife
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2006 Posts: 3
Posted: 11-02-06 02:17am
Hi there..This is my expereince after
3months of marriage..
I discovered there is one fundamental
cause for me to cum too fast.
That is...I wasn't hard enough b4
penetration. My dick couldn't get inside
without me either hammering the entrance
like a battering ram or pumping my dick
manually to make it sufficiently hard.
These activities are akin to
self-masturbation which makes my dick
super-sensitive after I finally enter my
wife. The fluids and the warmth inside
jacks the sensitivity even further and
voila..Premature ejeculation after 4-5
thrusts. I can't even stay still inside
without struggling like mad.
So, if you find yourself not getting a
good hard-on when you jump into the sack,
do yourself and ur lover a favour, don't
dick it, just use yer
finger/mouth/foot(???)..Just kidding on
the last bit. Stop masturbating, reduce
yer lovemaking, eat more proteins
especially arginine, massage ur pubic area
excluding the dick with a traditional
massaging oil, exercise more, take garlic
supplements and most importantly make sure
u ain't got diabetes. Plus it laso helps
if u've stimulated ur lover good enough
till she's wide open inside. Pumping away
like a bunny upon penetration is not a
good idea. Let ur dick adapt to vaginal
environment and vice versa. Let go any
notions of pornographic performance. Go
slow. If you think u can up the throttle
a bit, do so with control.
Hope that helps. Cheers
|
sharpshooter153
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Mar 2008 Posts: 10
The quick and the dead Posted: 03-14-08 17:30pm
Hey guys I can totally empathise with you
chaps, the whole PE thing is driving me
insane. Check out my blog
prematureejaculation.blog.co.uk it's a
lighthearted look at the problem and
solutions. Please feel free to add
comments and words of wisdom - Craig
|
BigRob
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Apr 2008 Posts: 3
Posted: 04-03-08 12:47pm
the first time i had sex i didnt
ejaculate, but the second time i did i
barely lasted.
i havent had sex for about 6 months but
the way i think of it is, i was thinking
to hard about performing well and pleasing
my partner that it got me nervous etc.
but for me, i only seem to have that
problem with sex, i dont seem to P.E
during foreplay [ie. masterbation] or
oral.
