I had a surgical abortion two days ago.
I'm 17 and my fetus was at 8 weeks and 5
days. I chose not to use pain medicine
during or after in order to keep track of
my symptoms and because I hate to feel
tired. That said, here are my inquiries:
first of all, i'm wondering about hormones
and body changes. I've read some stories
about women experiencing pregnancy
symptoms for their full "would-be"
pregnancy terms. I've been working out
like crazy (even though I know i'm
supposed to wait two weeks) in order to
lose the weight I gained from being
exhausted and starving during the
pregnancy. My face is crazy broken out
and i'm hoping that will subside as well,
if this is due to hormones which will even
out soon.
Also, cramps and breathing. I'm not
cramping too bad, but since the procedure,
and I guess also before the abortion, I
have this dull pain in my uterus and am
wondering when that will wear off. My
breathing has been really short too. I'm
going to get some x-rays within the next
few weeks if this doesn't go away, but
hopefully someone can relate to that.
Finally, this is more about emotional
health... I've been with my beautiful
boyfriend, who got me pregnant, for a year
and a half. We've always been very
affectionate and sexual (yes, I realize
i'm young and am not asking for advice).
We're successful young adults, independent
and monogamous. But since getting the
abortion, I feel terrible when he touches
me. The doctor was a man, who didn't
really say anything to me or warn me at
all as he shoved his instruments and
chemicals into me. I felt it all. I am
young... And trying not to let this
traumatize me, but it kind of has? Makes
me cry everytime I think about it.
Help, or any stories about effects of an
abortion would be wonderful.
P.S. I do not regret this. I get upset,
but I know that I made the right choice in
every perspective.