Joined: 19 Aug 2005 Posts: 10 Location: auburn , Wa
I Pull My Hair Out! Posted: 08-28-05 16:38pm
Hi im 14 years old and I have stress
really bad. I have stress that is called
tricotellomania. I've never talked about
this before because I was to imbarresed
too. Everyone makes fun of me because of
how short my hair is. The only reason why
im talking about it now is beacsue I feel
more comfotable. Can you guys answer my
q? Do you know any ways to take away my
problem? Thank you so much
love always kacki
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Hypochondriac1028
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2005 Posts: 313 Location: Ohio
Posted: 08-28-05 19:46pm
I know what ur going through I have the
same thing.
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sad_eyes
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Aug 2005 Posts: 96
Posted: 08-30-05 18:53pm
Hi,
i don't know much about your condition but
you could check this website, don't know
if you will find it useful or not
i think that the condition could possibly
be linked to anxiety. So you could maybe
focus on methods of reducing the stress
and anxiety in your life.
Why do you feel you are stressed at the
moment?
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Maybe is Just a Baby
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Aug 2006 Posts: 2 Location: Michigan
I Know How Ya Feel Posted: 08-29-06 19:58pm
When I turned 13 almost 3 years ago, my
parents got a divorce and I developed a
bad habbit... I used to think it was just
a phase but after a whole year of doing
it, my parents got me some counsiling. I
have been in counciling for about 3 years,
and it's not helping, I still pull my
hair, I dunno if you do this too, but
after I pull my hair out, i'll put it in
my mouth and bite on it, all the kids at
school make fun of me and laugh at how I
look... I'm pretty other than my hair, my
good friends tell me it looks like I just
have short hair... Others have called me
some very rude names. I 've tried so
manythings to quit, but I still haven't
found the right thing... Here's a list of
things i've tried some may or may not work
on you, I wish you the best.
1.) gum- always having a piece of gum in
my mouth
2.) rubberband on my wrist- snap yourself
everytime you catch yourself doing it
3.) writting, coloring, painting-
something to keep your hands busy.
4.) having parents, friends, or anyone let
you know when you're doing it.
5.) hair extensions- they're really
expensive, but when I got mine all I could
think about was how good it felt to have
long hair again. That worked for a
while.
6.) painting your fingernails so it's
harder to grab a piece of hair.
7.) wearing bandages around your finger
that you pull with so it's harder.
8.) having somthing smooth in your hands
like a small rock or something to rub on
whenever you feel an urge
9.) a mouth guard, if you bite it, then
it's almost impossible to do it with one
in.
10.) having a pen or pencil to fiddle with
when you get an urge.
11.) having your parents punish you from
something that you love, or do everyday.
12.) wearing a hat- so you can't get to
your hair.
13.) wearing gloves so it's hard to
pull.
14.) brushing your teeth constantly.
15.) taking showers constantly, so you
hair doesn't feel the same when you pull
it.
16.) wearing gel or something to make your
hair harder to pull .
17.) picking up a hobby, something that
can keep you busy, like running, playing a
sport, playing the computer, or something
like that.
18.) counsiling may work for you, but so
far it hasn't worked for me.
19.) getting hypnotized to stop, I only
tried this a couple times, and gave up,
but some people say it takes more than a
couple days to start working.
20.) try to reward yourself when you don't
do it. Say if you don't do it for a whole
day then you can go out and buy yourself
something, or you parents can take you out
to eat.
21.) antidepressant pills, also, an add
medison like ridolen or straterra may work
I knew a lady who took ridolen and stopped
right away, didn't even have to try.
22.) if you're religious, pray... I'm not
but I tried praying for a while.
23.)don't avoid doing things because
you're afraid of what people might think
about you, i've learned that if you're out
doing something, it keeps you busy.
I'm no professional, but if I can help,
that's what I want to do. If you've tried
anthing different than me let me know, and
if I think of anymore i'll sure as heck
let you know. I kow I always feel like a
loner, like nobodyelse know how I feel ,
or what i'm going through. But getting
around that helps a little knowing that
you're not the only one in the world.Let
me know if any of these things helped you,
keep my updated.
<3 <3
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ccris123
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Sep 2006 Posts: 58 Location: Kentucky
Stress Posted: 09-06-06 00:23am
Don't feel too bad, I have it too. Mine
only shows up when i'm really stressed.
My problem is that i'll pull my hair while
i'm sleeping. My bf usually wakes up and
holds my hand to make me stop. Sometimes
I catch myself doing it, but rarely. I've
started to reduce my stress and it works
somewhat. I only occasionally do it
now...Especially when I have an important
decision to make or when money matters are
at hand.