Really Inbarecing Question But I Need a Anwser Posted: 08-29-05 18:03pm
:? Well me and my bf are doing good. I
was wanting to know something. Becanse me
and him make out and he slips his hand in
my pance sometimes and tries to finger me.
But it hurts so much but sometimes it
doesn't but I wont orgazum and then
afterword it will hurt so much. I asked
him if he was doing it the right way but
he said yeah iam. I don't think he is.
:cry: iam not prostitute ppl just in case
you are thinking that I have been with him
for 5 months now and I love him. But is
there a wrong way to finger someone? And
one really quick question one time after
word when he was done fingering me I went
to the bathroom when he was done and I
peaed and it hurt so much and there was a
little little blood. Like not even alot
then it went away then the next day there
was a little little blood agien. And over
the weekend he did it agien and it hurt
alot agien and now there is not blood but
it hurts alot when ever I use the
restroom. I think he poped my charry but
idk if he did I have never experinced
anything like that niether have my
firends. So give me some advice thanks.
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Keehiaangel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2005 Posts: 184
Cherry Posted: 08-29-05 18:22pm
I would say that is what has happened to
you. You are a virgin right? So yes that
is probably what has happened. It will
hurt for probably a week. Just some
advice that is all you should try some
type of lube to see if that will make it
any easier.
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neeko177
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Joined: 16 Feb 2005 Posts: 427
Posted: 08-30-05 00:18am
Just a thought, maybe u could try asking
him to be gentler...That probably is what
happened to you if your a virgin, which it
sounds likeyou are.. This has nothing to
do with pregnancy but.. If it hurts that
bad..Why dont you guide his hand where you
want it to be where it will feel good and
not hurt.. And kinda just get him to rub
"it" instead of actually using his fingers
for a while...
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sxcgirl_me
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Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 372 Location: Sydney - Australia
Posted: 08-30-05 00:21am
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kkkaaayyyy
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Joined: 25 Aug 2005 Posts: 94 Location: Upstate New York
Posted: 08-31-05 13:54pm
I would tell him just not to do it so
hard. Does he have finger nails? If so,
that could be the problem also. You were
talking about having an orgasm. Once in
awhile have him play with your clitoris.
Not only your vagina. Just tell him to
slow down and not do it so hard, and maybe
you'll enjoy it a lil more. Let me know
how things go!!!
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fatfamily02
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Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 09-03-05 19:19pm
Some times the angle is all wrong while in
the top of your pants. Try it with them
lowered a little or off, might be a
completely different experience for you.
Tell him to watch the fingernails, and you
prolly did break your hymen(dont know how
to spell it)
good luck
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BlueCatje
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Aug 2005 Posts: 55
Posted: 09-04-05 14:30pm
It wouldn't be because of a lost virginity
(sp?) that it hurts when she pees tho!
:shock:
get tested for a bladder infection!
Hurting when you pee, going to the
restroom alot and blood in urine are all
symptoms of that.
And girl, if that thing spreads to your
kidneys it hurts!!! So if it still hurts
when you pee, give your doc a urine
sample! ;)
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wowgirl90
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Joined: 16 Aug 2005 Posts: 23 Location: oglesby
Okay Iam Dumb... Posted: 09-04-05 21:58pm
Well okay I figured it out through one of
your guyses help. That when he does it
slower and only on my u no clit it does
not hurt no pain. And that peeing hurting
thing went away.
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Jilly9897
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Joined: 05 Sep 2005 Posts: 1
to Be Perfectly Honest... Posted: 09-05-05 18:01pm
Im sorry, but judging by this girls
vocabulary, grammar, and not being very
articulate, she doesnt sound old enough to
be having any type of sexual experiences,
let alone be asking advice about them.
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wowgirl90
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Aug 2005 Posts: 23 Location: oglesby
Posted: 09-14-05 15:55pm
Who are u to tell me what I can and can't
do. Sorry I guess maybe insted of
asking things I just will do them dumb
medical question this site is for help I
wanted help medical question you if you
had rude things to say then why did you
read my stuff? Also umm I know lots of
younger girls then me who do more things
so go lecture to them. Iam 15 and I know
what to do with my life iam not going to
screw it up sorry. Iam smart enough to
know wrong from right and iam a virgin too
I just do other things and those things if
you must know are fingering thats it
nothing else. I know you tried to be
perfectly honest but I don't really care
what you think.
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GinACod
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Sep 2005 Posts: 262 Location: Ohio
Posted: 09-14-05 17:27pm
Woo hun,
we are here to help and you will get that
a bit here. Theres still alot of
discrepencys about teens and sex so don't
worry. Next off I was going to say be
careful with fingering rough it can make a
hole between your 2 holes ( you know what
I mean). Just be careful and if you do
decide to have sex with him use a condom
and get on birth control... It might be
the first for both of you but you could
still get std's. Take care hun...
