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Q: Really Inbarecing Question But I Need a Anwser

asked by: wowgirl90 on August 29th, 2005

New User

:? Well me and my bf are doing good. I was wanting to know something. Becanse me and him make out and he slips his hand in my pance sometimes and tries to finger me. But it hurts so much but sometimes it doesn't but I wont orgazum and then afterword it will hurt so much. I asked him if he was doing it the right way but he said yeah iam. I don't think he is. :cry: iam not prostitute ppl just in case you are thinking that I have been with him for 5 months now and I love him. But is there a wrong way to finger someone? And one really quick question one time after word when he was done fingering me I went to the bathroom when he was done and I peaed and it hurt so much and there was a little little blood. Like not even alot then it went away then the next day there was a little little blood agien. And over the weekend he did it agien and it hurt alot agien and now there is not blood but it hurts alot when ever I use the restroom. I think he poped my charry but idk if he did I have never experinced anything like that niether have my firends. So give me some advice thanks.

Replies(11)

Keehiaangel

replied on August 29th, 2005

Experienced User

Cherry

I would say that is what has happened to you. You are a virgin right? So yes that is probably what has happened. It will hurt for probably a week. Just some advice that is all you should try some type of lube to see if that will make it any easier.

neeko177

replied on August 30th, 2005

Experienced User

Just a thought, maybe u could try asking him to be gentler...That probably is what happened to you if your a virgin, which it sounds likeyou are.. This has nothing to do with pregnancy but.. If it hurts that bad..Why dont you guide his hand where you want it to be where it will feel good and not hurt.. And kinda just get him to rub "it" instead of actually using his fingers for a while...

sxcgirl_me

replied on August 30th, 2005

Experienced User

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kkkaaayyyy

replied on August 31st, 2005

Experienced User

I would tell him just not to do it so hard. Does he have finger nails? If so, that could be the problem also. You were talking about having an orgasm. Once in awhile have him play with your clitoris. Not only your vagina. Just tell him to slow down and not do it so hard, and maybe you'll enjoy it a lil more. Let me know how things go!!!

fatfamily02

replied on September 3rd, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Some times the angle is all wrong while in the top of your pants. Try it with them lowered a little or off, might be a completely different experience for you. Tell him to watch the fingernails, and you prolly did break your hymen(dont know how to spell it)

good luck

BlueCatje

replied on September 4th, 2005

Experienced User

It wouldn't be because of a lost virginity (sp?) that it hurts when she pees tho! :shock:

get tested for a bladder infection! Hurting when you pee, going to the restroom alot and blood in urine are all symptoms of that.

And girl, if that thing spreads to your kidneys it hurts!!! So if it still hurts when you pee, give your doc a urine sample! ;)

wowgirl90

replied on September 4th, 2005

New User

Okay Iam Dumb...

Well okay I figured it out through one of your guyses help. That when he does it slower and only on my u no clit it does not hurt no pain. And that peeing hurting thing went away.

Jilly9897

replied on September 5th, 2005

New User

to Be Perfectly Honest...

Im sorry, but judging by this girls vocabulary, grammar, and not being very articulate, she doesnt sound old enough to be having any type of sexual experiences, let alone be asking advice about them.

wowgirl90

replied on September 14th, 2005

New User

Who are u to tell me what I can and can't do. Sorry I guess maybe insted of asking things I just will do them dumb medical question this site is for help I wanted help medical question you if you had rude things to say then why did you read my stuff? Also umm I know lots of younger girls then me who do more things so go lecture to them. Iam 15 and I know what to do with my life iam not going to screw it up sorry. Iam smart enough to know wrong from right and iam a virgin too I just do other things and those things if you must know are fingering thats it nothing else. I know you tried to be perfectly honest but I don't really care what you think.

GinACod

replied on September 14th, 2005

Experienced User

Woo hun,
we are here to help and you will get that a bit here. Theres still alot of discrepencys about teens and sex so don't worry. Next off I was going to say be careful with fingering rough it can make a hole between your 2 holes ( you know what I mean). Just be careful and if you do decide to have sex with him use a condom and get on birth control... It might be the first for both of you but you could still get std's. Take care hun...

angel6932

replied on September 14th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

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