I Dont Know What to Do :( Posted: 08-30-05 16:29pm
I posted before about my relationship.
Im just having a hard time here and I dont
know what to do. We have been fighting a
lot and then we were going to break up.
Mostly cuz I think hes cheating with a
certain girl and it makes me question
everything he does that looks suspicious.
Hes told me the girl was with his brother
and now he says shes with his friend.
Ive never met her but know who she is cuz
of emails and stuff. He swears up and
down that theres never been anything
between them but the emails ive seen prove
otherwise. He doesnt know ive seen the
emails. After our talk the other day
that night seemed pretty perfect, he
treated me better than he has forever,
then last night he treated me good but did
a couple things that made me suspicious,
like first wanting to leave at like 1:45am
for gas cuz he said the prices were
raising and he asked me if I wanted to go
and when I said sure he was like oh of
course. Then when we came back he came
up with another excuse on why he had to go
run some money to his brother and didnt
ask me to go. He was only gone 15
minutes but I keep thinkin he wanted to
get away to call her or something. Once
he had me leave his house at like 3am cuz
of a friend (the one he said shes with)
was having a problem with police and I
seen the girls car there, then last week
(on my bday) the same silver car drove by
slow and then 5 minutes later he claimed
his kids mom was there and told me to go
down in the basement cuz shes a trouble
maker...I was dumb and did it but I know
its that girl.
This is killin me that he would do this to
me and keep makin up stories about it. I
want to believe him but with everything
thats happened I cant. Its makin me
crazy. I should just talk to him about
it and tell him he knows I suspect it and
stuff though. I thought I wanted to tell
him I want him to call her with me there
and tell her that hes proving to me that
their relationship is platonic but I know
he'll get mad...I dont know what to do :(
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cameo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Aug 2005 Posts: 18 Location: Salem, Oregon USA
Relax Posted: 08-30-05 16:47pm
Remember one thing:
the truth will come out in the wash.
If he is by evidence instead of
"suspicious"
than you must decide if you want to stay
in this relationship.
Relationships are based on trust, maybe
that's why he gets mad at you when you
question him?
Cameo
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cameo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Aug 2005 Posts: 18 Location: Salem, Oregon USA
Relax Posted: 08-30-05 16:49pm
Remember one thing:
the truth will come out in the wash.
If he is by evidence instead of
"suspicious"
than you must decide if you want to stay
in this relationship.
Relationships are based on trust, maybe
that's why he gets mad at you when you
question him?
Cameo
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cameo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Aug 2005 Posts: 18 Location: Salem, Oregon USA
Relax Posted: 08-30-05 16:49pm
Remember one thing:
the truth will come out in the wash.
If he is by evidence instead of
"suspicious"
than you must decide if you want to stay
in this relationship.
Relationships are based on trust, maybe
that's why he gets mad at you when you
question him?
Cameo
