Sex With My Girlfriend....help! Posted: 08-31-05 23:45pm
Ok, me and my girlfriend have been dating
for about two months....And have been
having sex for about a month and a half.
I was a virgin when before this, and she
did not have much more experience than me.
The thing is that when we do it, she says
it doesn't feel good. Am I doing somethin
wrong or what? I don't know how you can
mess it up but apparently I am doing
somethin wrong so please help!
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innocent_me
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Aug 2005 Posts: 15
Posted: 09-01-05 03:17am
When a girl hasnt had sex before or is
inexperienced sexually they can sometimes
be "tight" which may make sex painful or
uncomfortable for them. I suggest lots
and lots of foreplay- kissing, touching,
stoking etc might benefit her as the
wetter she is the better. It wont be
painful then and if she relaxes and just
enjoys the moment she myt learn to like
it. Just take it slow. Dont worry its
probably not you.
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ybuggey08
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Joined: 31 Aug 2005 Posts: 2
Thanks Posted: 09-01-05 21:47pm
Alright cool, thanks for your help.
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cinderella
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Re: Sex With My Girlfriend....help! Posted: 09-06-05 10:42am
ybuggey08
wrote:
ok, me and my girlfriend
have been dating for about two
months....And have been having sex for
about a month and a half. I was a virgin
when before this, and she did not have
much more experience than me. The thing
is that when we do it, she says it doesn't
feel good. Am I doing somethin wrong or
what? I don't know how you can mess it
up but apparently I am doing somethin
wrong so please
help!
well...I think you need
to warm-up don't just jump into the part
of penetrating....First u gotta play like
the other user kissing & touching and
stuff like that..... Have her giving u
head and stuff like or u can try the
position that really turns me on the 69 (
have u heard about it?)
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JohnnyB25
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Joined: 05 Jun 2005 Posts: 4 Location: USA
Posted: 09-06-05 14:21pm
I agree with the above. Also you can try
putting some lube to ease the penetration
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cd998776
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Posted: 09-07-05 15:01pm
johnnyb25
wrote:
i agree with the above.
Also you can try putting some lube to ease
the
penetration
agreed.
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caring_mum
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Joined: 10 Sep 2005 Posts: 1 Location: canada
Specially 4 Buggey Posted: 09-13-05 19:45pm
Hi young man,
i was once a lil girl like her too you
know!..The best way to make her feel good
is to put her mind at ease when u guys are
getting intimate...Sweet talk her well
well and kiss her ear a lot (lick too if u
can) believe me she start to melt out like
the snowgirl in the summer..Here's a tool
that would definitely aid u in trying
different things with her....
turn her on
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fatfamily02
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Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
You Dont Ever Tell a Virgin That Its No Good Posted: 09-13-05 20:10pm
That is terrible, im sorry hon. But
these others have given you some
suggestions to help make it better for
her, but you said she is experiencd right?
I dont know but I just know it is rude
to tell a virgin "it dont feel good" it
could scar you for life. But just
remember we all started out a virgin. I
was humiliated by my first encounter
too---he said "are you just going to ly
still" like I even knew what to do. He
was the experienced one he could have
helped me by suggesting not making me feel
"no good"
it will work out though, and you are
getting experience---right??
