Ok...Where do I begin? My ex and I work
together. We have been dating for about 5
months flirting for 9. Anyway we had the
whole I love you thing going on and the
whole nine yards. I am not a very
trusting person, thus the reason for the
break up. It's been about 3 weeks now
since we split up, the first week I
couldn't get him to speak to me at all,
then last week everyday at work he would
come to me with some little silly thing,
like oh I didn't know you were here today,
when all he has to do is look straight
ahead or do you want to order lunch,
anyway I didn't call all that week nor did
he call me....Then here comes sunday he
calls that night, says to see how I am
doing?...Then calls back later that night
and asks if I am missing him, of course I
answer yes, he says he is on his way over,
that he misses me too. Of course once he
got here i'm sure you can all use your
imagination as to what happened...Now mind
you he is not a very sexual person..So I
don't think he was here for just
that...Anyway here comes monday, we talk a
little at work, he does little flirty
things, he calls after work we talk for 2
hours on the phone..Today is wed and he is
pretty much back to not talking again. I
call he doesn't answer, I ask him why he
is doing this to me and he doesn't
answer....He has ripped my heart out.
Monday when we talked he made it sound
like everything was slowly going to be ok.
I don't want my heart broken again. I
just don't know what to do. Thanks
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solid_target
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2005 Posts: 5 Location: stratford
What Does Ur Heart Tell U?? Posted: 09-01-05 08:39am
Hey i'm not a relationship expert or
summin but thought i'd post a reply. If
ur having doubts about him them just tell
him straight forward if he likes u them he
has to stop treating u like that cos I
dont think its fair and a pereson
shouldn't b treated like caca. And if he
keeps breaking ur heart then leave him cos
hes not worth all this pain. Hes probs
using u luv. Anyway what I just read hes
being an fool as I wud call childish, so
just speak to him and tell him direct if u
want this to work and then make him
confess. Make it comeout of him then u'll
kno if he luvs u. I dont think he's being
honest..:(. Without trust there nothing.
U hud just move on if he still carries on.
Well hope he finally wakes up to c what
an fool hes been. Well hope it all goes
well.
