I was just wonderin..Is it easy to raise a
kid while your a teenager?Wouldnt you have
to go to school and everything?And what
about what all the people who lived around
you would say?
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sckbunny
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2003 Posts: 129 Location: Canada
Posted: 11-28-03 01:48am
Of course its not easy. Its not even easy
to most parents who aren't teenagers.
Alot of moms do drop out of school to
raise their babies which of course I do
not reccomend.. I'm staying in school.
In my town I have a student mom's program.
We do our schooling and very near our
school is a daycare for our babies. Its
not as strict as regular school so that if
our babies need us or are sick we can miss
the needed days and not fall far behind.
I haven't had my baby yet but I am going
to the school and its really great because
if I feel sick in the morning (which I
sometimes do) then I do not have to go in
if I really do not want to and they are
alot more undertanding about it.
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Re: a Question Posted: 11-28-03 06:36am
dustins_goofy_babe
wrote:
i was just wonderin..Is it
easy to raise a kid while your a
teenager?Wouldnt you have to go to school
and everything?And what about what all the
people who lived around you would say?
first off, it isn't easy for anyone to
raise a baby. And being a teenager just
makes it all the more difficult. Although
some of the teen mothers that I have seen
and talked to seem like better parents
than those who are in their twenties and
thirties. Some teens just stop going to
school altogether, some take some time off
and go back later, and some have someone
take care of the baby while they are at
school. As for what the people who live
around you and what they would say,
depends on who they are. Some people are
extremely happy and proud of you for
having a baby and for being a teen mother
and sticking to the responsibilities. But
there are always a few who love to put you
down, make fun of you, harrass you. Ya
know the really nasty people. Hope that
answers your questions. Much love melissa
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 11-28-03 13:20pm
Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-29-04 10:43am; edited 1 time in total
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illusionsmamma
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003 Posts: 210 Location: las vegas
Posted: 11-28-03 16:41pm
Let me tell you my sister in law has 4
kids and she is 21 just like insurance
girl and her eldest is only 3 years old
how about that!!! She just had the
youngest about 1 month ago so they run
from 3-2-1-0 her and my brother have a
hard time see they drink a gallon of milk
a day imagine the money they spend on
diapers and stuff thats hard its hard for
me and I have 1 and its a big package
insurance girl who watches your kids?
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dustins_goofy_babe
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Nov 2003 Posts: 28 Location: Illinois
Thanks Posted: 11-28-03 23:51pm
Hello thanks for replyin to my
message...Ive also put up a thing in
pregnancy called help..Could I be
pregnant? If u would like to read
it...But im not sure I might be pregnant
but then if I am im not sure...Im only 13
and in the 8th grade...I just became
sexually active this year...Not really
this yr...But this is the first b/f that I
have been sexually active wit but we have
been together for like 4 months soo I
guess u can say that is good and we both
love each other...But ya if I was pregnant
I would say it would be hard but as long
as I had my familys support and some
friends...I know my best friend would be
there cause she has told me and she is
sexually active herself so ya...She knows
wat I would be goin through I guess u
would say...But I would wanna finish
highschool because wats the point of the
babys life if I didnt have a highschool
diploma I would be workin at a fast food
resturant or maybe not even that I wouldnt
make enough money for my baby and me and
my b/f or watever...And if I was pregnant
my bf would be there and hes gonna
graduate this yr so he will be gettin a
job and bla bla n he said that he would
watch the baby if he could while I went to
school or one of our family member would
have to watch them...So I think I will
have it ok as for there if I do ever
become pregnant...Well who ever is readin
this thanks for takin time out of ur day
to read it cause sometimes its nice to
have someone there to talk about stuff wit
that u dont wanna talk about to some other
ppl...Well im gonna go now...Thanks alot
