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Q: Freaking Out, Help Needed Please!

asked by: VivianLee on September 1st, 2005

New User

Last week, when my boyfriend and I were messing around with both our clothes on, my bf got excited and his pre-cum (or semen) even soaked through his pants a little bit. Later my boyfriend caressed my genitals outside my underwear and trousers using his hand. Since he also used the same hand rubbed his own genitals through his pants before he caressed me, is it possible that he got some sperms on his hand from his pants? If it is, could those sperms on his hand travel throught my pants and get into my vagina to make me pregnant? What makes me more worried is that day was my ovulation day too. What are the chances for me to get pregnant? Thanks a lot!

Btw, I searched online, some said although sperms are good swimmers, they can not make their ways to get through two layers of clothes. But some said it's possible. Which should I believe?

Replies(8)

3kizz

replied on September 1st, 2005

Experienced User

Sperm cannot pass through clothing. Relx and be extra carefull

VivianLee

replied on September 3rd, 2005

New User

Thanks.

Thank you very much for all your answers. But my another concern is that since that day was my ovulation day, I had more lubricant on my underwear than usual, which made my underwear bottom a little wet. I am not sure if my pants were also soaked by my discharge at that time too. What if mhy pants bottom were also wet? Would that provide a fluid route for the sperm to go through the clothes to enter my vagina and make pregnancy much easier? How's that pregnancy possibility? Still slim?

Chrystal

replied on September 3rd, 2005

New User

I doubt you could be pregnant, but if you are worried it might be peace of mind to visit a doctor, then and only then can you be 100% sure :)

BrianBaby

replied on September 3rd, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

It's highly unlikely that you are pregnant.....If your really stressed take a test

fatfamily02

replied on September 3rd, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Quote:

it is possible to become pregnant while engaging in sexual intercourse while fully clothed, if the man ejaculates and the semen soaks through the clothing and reach your vagina. You are at greatest risk if the clothing is thin and you rub together for a long time after he ejaculates. Regardless of whether your bodies are separated by material, clothing is not a form of birth control. Clothing does not prevent semen form entering the vagina. The only protection from pregnancy is the consistent use of some form of birth control, such as "the pill" or condoms.

If semen is ejaculated or rubbed near the vagina, there is a chance of pregnancy if some sperm find their way inside the vaginal canal.

...But cloth that is loosely woven is more easily penetrable. If you still have concerns, make sure semen does not land near the vagina regardless of whether both of you are clothed; and if that does happen, change clothes immediately and rinse yourself off thoroughly.

In practice, however, risks cannot be ruled out if he ejaculates on or near your vaginal opening. As long as neither you nor your partner has any traces of semen on your hands or other body parts used to stimulate each other, the risk of pregnancy should be small. But, say for example, the male stimulates himself, ejaculates in his hand, then proceeds to stimulate the female with his hand; there is a chance that sperm can find their way into the vagina.

VivianLee

replied on September 5th, 2005

New User

So My Chances to Be Pregnant Should Be Slim?

In my case, we didn't have sex intercourse, no genital area rubbing or contact, no ejaculate on or near my vagina either. Secondly, we both had clothes on. My bf touched his genitals outside his clothes first, then touched my vulva outside my pants and underwear using the same hand for about 2 minutes. So taking all these considerated, can I say that my chance to be pregnant is very slim to nil?

Thank you all for your kind help and patience!

fatfamily02

replied on September 5th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Very very slim

replied on September 6th, 2005

Experienced User

It would be a near miracle if either of those situations resulted in a pregnancy.

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