You might just feel over whelmed at the fact that such a little person could need so much from one person. It is harder to deal with it all by your self. Just relax. I would suggest telling someone. Even if it;s a dr or just a phone number you can call and talk to someone. You can't keep it to your self or your drive your self nuts. Maybe call a relitive to come over and help you ovt even if you want to take a bath or a shower or something. Use all the resouces you have.

Post partum depression-- there is medication for it.

The change in the hormones causes it--tell your doc tomorrow and say you like to try the medication to fix it

Hey jo!!!!
How are u sweety?

Its nothing to be ashamed of, lots of women have postpartum depression. It's a natural reaction. Your sleep deprived and your baby that you brought into the world needs so much attention its overwhelming. My sister had it, and she started seeing a counsler, and got put on meds.

hi, hon im great and you?

Love
me

Im good,

my boyfriend is taking me out tonight so im happy for the day.

Its only thursday over your way isnt it?

Yes maam, its friday for you?

no offense, but if you guys wanna to talk pm each other. I find this a very serious issue, and welcome peoples help...Not about "how your going out"...And all that.

Sammy there is no need to feel ashamed at all. While I am not a medical expert it does indeed sound like you have post-partum depression. When your husband is not there to help you with the baby it leaves you feeling overwhelmed, stressed, and anxious because you have to do it all on your own.

First of all, most importantly, and immediately, contact your doctor. Tell him/her your symptoms and that you believe you have post-partum depression. There are many thing the doctor can prescribe you to help level your hormone levels.

Secondly, do utilize friends and family as much as possible. Explain to them what is happening. I am sure all of them would be more than happy to help take care of that little bundle of joy, giving you some time to yourself to relax. When they come over use that time to take a nice hot bath with relaxation aids: candles, scented body wash specifically for relaxing, etc. Lavender works very well for relaxing. You can also ask them to take the baby to their place so you can get a nap in. Or you may choose just to step out for a while, do some shopping, have a dinner alone out, go watch a movie, or whatnot.


Thirdly, make sure you are taking good care of yourself. Continue to eat well balanced healthy meals. Get some exercise. Sunlight and fresh air helps, too. Get out in the sun. Put the baby in the stroller and go for a walk. Play soothing music for you and baby. To help with the lack of sleep be sure to sleep when the baby sleeps.

Whatever you decide just don't be afraid to ask for help from the doctor, friends, and family! Asking for help does not mean you are failing at being a mother! All of us new mothers need help from time to time and being too proud to ask for the help we need only does harm to ourselves, and ultimately to the baby.

third post out I suggested what you need to do and what is wrong with you--so, go to the dr and get medication.

So I believe I was not disrespecting you by saying hi to my friend--sorry if I offended you though