I'm 19 and I have 3 kids and I am a single
mum.
My first childs dad I was with him since I
was 13 when I was 15 I found out I was
pregnant. I gave birth to my first
daughter when I was 16.The baby's dad was
a year older than me. When my daughter
was 10 months old we both decided to
split. We are still really good friends
and he see's his daughter on a really
regular basis.
Then I met another man about 2months
later. Soon after I found out I was
pregnant.I was excited to be giving my
daughter lucy a little brother or
sister.My partner was very excited until I
got to 6mths gone. Then he told me I
should get rid of the baby. I said i'd
never get rid of a baby and that it was
too far anyway. I gave birth to another
daughter called beth. When beth was 6
weeks old my partner started beating me
up. But I was so disgusted in my self
that I didn't fight back. When my
youngest daughter was 15 weeks old he
raped me. I was in shock. The next day
when he was at work I packed my bags and
left with my 2 daughters. He is now in
prison because he raped another woman
aswel. Before he went in prison he told
me he never wanted to see me and my kdis
again.
Then I met another man. He helped me
through my pain and I got pregnant. We
split when I was 7 months pregnant because
he cheated on me. We are still good
friends and I now have his son who is now
aged 4mths. He see's his son regularly
aswell.
Has any one else been through similar
experiences as me?
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bglittery1979
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Hmmm Posted: 01-02-06 21:38pm
Well ,i have to say, what are you
thinking? You are 19 years old and should
be in college rather than having child
after a child that will live in poverty (
most likely). You are the type of women
that give other single moms a bad name. I
am sorry for what you have been through.
But give it a break, you are in this
position because you didn't learn the
first time around. I think it will be
hard for you to find other people in the
same situation, although there are many
other people who are selfish as you seem
to be. Also, condoms prevent the spread
of disease.
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Cambion
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Posted: 01-02-06 22:19pm
Hmm, I think I smell a breeder..
Honestly, I seriously doubt you will find
too many people in the same situation as
you. Not saying it's impossible, but
there are very few girls who have 3 kids
before they hit 20. You did not say
anywhere in your post that you utilized
any form of contraception. If you slept
with 3 different guys and didn't protect
yourself at all, then I simply can't pity
you. You brought 3 shrieklings upon
yourself. Taking care of yourself at 19
is hard enough, but to also care for 3
children? How are you paying for them?
Do you work and leave the kids with a
sitter or a relative? Dear lord.
Sorry for being so insensitive, but I
cannot sympathize for your plight if you
took no precautions. If/when you get
involved with a new partner, please please
please do something to protect yourself.
You will only bring more suffering upon
yourself and your children by giving life
to yet another potentially unwanted baby.
Don't let your children grow up in a
miserable atmosphere, if they aren't
already.
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