Separated By Distance And Now He's Calling It Quits Posted: 09-04-05 00:05am
We met when I was on holiday and he was
working on an holiday island. We had a
good chat, and all round good time we met
up again a month later when he came to my
country. I took another holiday to his
place a month later and we hit it off,
again.
We always have such a good time together,
seemed perfectly in tune to each other.
Two nights ago he broke it off, cos it was
too hard, and wouldnt work out in the
future. Was shell shocked - I knew it was
tough, just didnt expect him to give up so
soon.
Now not only am I left with crushed hopes
and broken heart, I have to go on this
holiday exactly a month from now which was
initially supposed to be with him. I cant
cancel or postpone and i'm sort of
dreading it, cos i'll be thinking about
him and the fun we were supposed to have
together.
Barely 6 months ago I got my heart broken
as well and I really really thought this
was going to be different. I don't know
how much more I can take, its really
really hurting me.
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KellyR
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Aug 2005 Posts: 90
Posted: 09-04-05 03:08am
I'm sorry for that. Maybe he is more
rational. Maybe he felt the same way,
that you will end up apart, and didn't
want to suffer more. You have to admit
that it is better to brake up now than in
a year or two...It is much more painful
the latter.
Try taking your best friend with you...Or
a girl that you get along with to that
vacation...It may help you a lot...
As for the fact that you recently had to
go through another breakup...I don't know
what to say....Perhaps you should try not
to get too much involved with someone you
don't know for that long. Try taking time
to get to know them better before making
plans together. Anyway, although it is
painful, you have to meet new guys...You
can't lock yourself in the house....
Try to find a guy which is a friend of
your friends or someone at work...Maybe
this will give you a little more assurance
than meeting a guy on holiday...Usually
people on holiday just want to have fun
and nothing more. And definetly don't
start a long distance relationship if you
are so hurt...It is very likely to get
hurt again...
Anyway....Be strong. Even if you feel
this is the worst thing in the whole
world, it will get better....You will find
happiness, just don't trust people that
easy and don't look for it...Let it find
you....
