Message From a Teen Parent Posted: 09-04-05 08:48am
I know that some young girls who are aged
from about 13 are trying to get pregnant
nowadays. I am 19 myself and I first fell
preg when I was 15. I now have 3 kids and
I am a single mum.
My kids are the most important things in
my life and I don't regret having them so
soon or anything. All as I wanted to do
from a young age was to become a mum that
was like my lifetime ambition. But I
don't think it's right for kids at school
still to plan on getting pregnant. It
might sound rich coming from me and you
probably think I sound like your mums or
whatever but you should be in a very very
stable relationship and you should leave
school and so well in your education first
so you can get a good career. Think
before you plan on anything like this. It
is a massive turnaround and an even bigger
responsibility
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 09-04-05 12:34pm
Your right it is a huge responsiblity,
thats why I want to wait till im done
highschool atleast. But I maybe preg. If
I am, theres nothing I can do, and I will
just have to start taking the nides(nortth
island distric education system) program
(kinda like homeschool) then ill come back
for 2nd semester of my grade 12 year (cuz
if I am im leaving half way threw my grade
11 year) I would perfer not to leave
school, but you got to do what you got to
do right...
I'm glad u understand but if your pregnant
you can't help it! Good luck if u r!
I gave birth 2 my 1st kid in my last yr at
skewl I gave birth in the feb,left in may
+ did my exams in june+july!
It is a huge responisibility but make sure
u av support frm family+friends and if
sum1 offers to help let them help because
you'l need as much help as you can get
good luck again
I dont blame these girls who want to have
babys so young..Since I was 10 I have
wanted a baby..Thats when my little
brother n sister were born.. But I knew I
had to wait, I just didnt know why...Now
that im 18 and have a cute little boy I
realize that having a baby really is the
best thing that can happen to you...But
when you have a kid its not about you..Its
about making sure you raise that child
with all your best and make sure he/she is
happy and taken good care of and to do
that you do need money and to make a plan
for both of your lives to make sure its
going to be ok... You cant be selfish
anymore
Yes. My youngest sister charlotte has a
baby in december she was 15 but only 14
when she became pregnant. Charl loves her
daughter demi loads and says it's the best
thing that's happened to her even though
she has found it tough. Demi wasn't
planned though. Charl says some of her
friends are jelous of her for being a mum
and are trying to concieve. They are only
15 and I think this is completely wrong.
I have told them my opinions and I have
been told that they thing when me and
charl had babys it made are lives complete
and made us something to live for.I know
some people like me long for a baby from a
early age and I understand why but you
also have to understand why you sometimes
have to wait.
