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mxchic131
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My Ex Thinks I Should Get An Abortion.... What Should I Do
Posted: 09-04-05 15:32pm
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Im 16. Ill be 17 in march. Ii am
pretty mcuh sure I am prenant. I got a
test and it was possitive. I am goin to
the doctor next week. Me and the guy are
talkin and we arent together anymore and
he thinks I should get an abortion. I
dont think that is what I wanna do. What
would you all do
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TheGoodStuff89
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Posted: 09-04-05 16:51pm
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It isn't about what he wants, it's about
what you want and what you think is best
for you and this baby.It's your decision
and your decision alone. If he doesn't
support your decision then he isn't worth
being in your life or your kids life.Im 15
and almost 4 months pregnant and people
pressured me from day one that I am too
young and I wont finish high school and
that an abortion is the only way, im glad
I didnt listen to any of em, I wouldnt
change a moment in my pregnancy so far and
I plan on finishing high school by being
homeschooled. Its your body and your
baby, nobody else can know whats right 4
either of them except you.
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sammy_listens
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Its Ur Choice
Posted: 09-04-05 17:07pm
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I know how you feel in a way I have two
sisters who have had children. One kept
her baby and the other gave her up for
adoption. This is my personnal opion
abortion is homicide. The sister that
gave her daughter up for adoption says it
hurts so bad but it was better than
getting an abortion. So if you do not
want a child then put the baby up for an
open adoption so u can still see the child
and nobody will die
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Brooklynsmama914
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Posted: 09-04-05 17:55pm
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All I have to say is never do something
that you wont feel comfortable with just
for a guy. There are other things you can
do if you know/feel you cannot care for a
child. Like open adoption. Dont get an
abortion just because thats what your ex
wants. Hes just trying to take the easy
way out.
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Danielle_P
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Re: My Ex Thinks I Should Get An Abortion.... What Should I
Posted: 09-05-05 19:10pm
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Plesae dont get an abrshion if he duznt
want it its tuf luk he shouldnt have made
it keep it and find it a new dad im 16 and
pregnant and I could neva get an aborishn
if u eva need 2 talk my email address is
lady
bugukok@hotmail.Com
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young_mom
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Don't Do It
Posted: 09-06-05 18:33pm
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No thats not good... I'm 16 and 5weeks...
Do what you feel is right not what he
feels is right... Please think about
this...
Ashley
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august_dreamz
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Posted: 09-07-05 17:47pm
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Just reading whta you said made me cry (as
pathetic as it sounds) cause I remember
going through the exact same thing..You
cant let anyone tell you what to do
because that baby is inside your stomach
not theirs and if you choose to keep
him/her then its completely your
responsibility... Even if the dad is
around your their main parent unless you
live with him. I found out I was pregnant
when I was 12 weeks along and where I live
the latest you can get an abortion is 12
1/2 weeks... I had only a couple of days
to decide and it broke my heart completely
because im against abortion but carters
(<-thats my baby!! :lol: ) dad was
trying to make me get an abortion...The
final decision came for me when I was in
the shower crying like i've never cried
before thinking horrible things and carter
kicked for the first time.. It was just
amazing so make the decision on your own
whether its by looking at your life and
deciding if you can pull through for that
baby or if its by searching the internet..
Just dont let anyone else tell you what
to do cause its not their business
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linuxChique
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herexwexgoxagain
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Posted: 09-10-05 10:06am
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Simply ask yourself if you will be able to
emotionally handle that someone removed
your child and that you will always have
the extra weight of knowing that your baby
is not with you, but dead. I'm not
trying to be offensive, but when I was
pregnant I resented the fact that I was
going to be a mom until I thought I had
lost my baby. This baby will be a part
of you forever, whether you have him or
not, and how you cope with it is up to
you. You'll always regret anything you
submiss to when you are not confortable
with it.
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Ashy6521
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Dont
Posted: 09-10-05 22:56pm
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I am 17 and 4 months pregnant my family
was pressuring me and I thank god that I
didnt but it is all up to you you have to
make the decision it is your body!!!!
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trishe
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Posted: 09-11-05 16:41pm
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Um its your body and your choice I think
you should do what ever you thinks is best
*good luck*
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mama17
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Posted: 09-18-05 10:30am
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My baby's daddy wanted me to get an
abortion when I was a month or so pregnant
and I was going to because I loved him?
But I didn't and yes he got mad but you
know what she makes me happy and oh no
wait she went into the rest room hold
on..... Okay well she's a handfull but if
it wasn't for her I would not be the
person I am now so don't get ride of the
baby inside of you just because your b/f
doesn't want it I was 16 as well and had
her 1 week before I tunred 17 but she's my
angel... So do what you think is best
forget about what ur b/f thinks listen to
your heart I did and this is what they
told me... " god doesn't bless you with
something you can't handle"
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loneytearz
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Posted: 09-21-05 10:45am
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Hey hunnie....My x wanted me to get an
abortion as well becuz he did not want
this baby...I was 16 at the time...I
completly disagreed becuz b4 I got
pregnant he was allways sayn well if we
had a kid it would be nothing...Itd make
me happy...N then outta no where one day
my peirods stoped...N I took a test n I
was pregnant....N I told him n he did seem
excited...N then close to 3 months he said
"ill give u $$ to get rid of it" but guess
wha me n him arent together n havent been
together sence april n I am now 31w1d
pregnant =-) n im gonna have a precious
baby boi to love n take care of...N my x
doesnt want nething to do with us still
but...Its not up to ur x... Its up to
u...Follow ur heart if u think u should
get one..Then think about it realllyyyyyyy
reallllllllyyy hard....I dont belive in
them...But if its needed then....But just
follow wha ya heart tells u hunnie im
going to be a 17 y/o single motha...N I
know I wouldnt change nething...
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mom2b15
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Posted: 09-30-05 19:48pm
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I got pg @ 15 and my bex told me dat he
wanted to have a baby so I got pg and it
was all wonderful until one day that he
desided to leave us but u konw wat u dont
need a guy to b with u and your baby their
all bunch of sweet spots that like to
leave babies laying around and cant act
like men and take care of their
responsibilities but anyways u shouldnt
have an abortion bc having a baby is the
most wonderful thing not just bc u love
him doesnt mean u going to lose some one
better.But its your decision so think
about it the most u can
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whit16
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Posted: 10-01-05 02:02am
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My boyfriend broke up with me as soon as I
told him I was pregnant. He tried to tell
me to get an abortion but thats just
something I do not believe in. If u think
it would be the right thing for u, do
it...But if u dont think thats whats right
for you, dont. You do what you feel is
the right thing. Not what he wants. You
need to be thinking about you and your
child...Dont worry about what he says.
You make the final decision...
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