No Question Just I Am Concerned Posted: 09-05-05 09:04am
I am 19 years old, and I might be
pregnant! I have had sex with only one
guy and that did not happen until I was
18! That guy is now the guy I will be
married to! He really wants kids, he is
22 (i use to say I never wanted them) but
since I have been with him, I have felt
that I wanted to have a family with him!
I am having a few of the symptoms, also I
do not have periods regularly at all maybe
a few times a year thats it, but I am
sort of scared to find out that I am
pregnant by taking a pregnancy test! As
I am a student, and I have always wanted
to be financially ready for kids, if I was
ever to have one!
And wanted to have a place of my own!
That and I still care what my mom will
think of me, she has always told me
because everyone around me that was young
having children and making there parents
grandparents at young ages, that she hope
I wouldn't make her a grandma at a young
age (hehe I don't find her that young)
(love giving her stuff about her age)
not really a question here but could use
some advice!
That may help me get the courage to get a
test!
Thanks
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Happiness03
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Posted: 09-05-05 10:13am
I think it would be in your best interest
if you went ahead and got a test. This
way if you are, you can be more aware of
you and your baby's health needs. Also,
if it turns out you aren't, then you won't
have to worry about telling your mom.
Second, you are afraid your mom will think
badly of you. She may be mad at first,
but after time, she will realize that this
is part of life. It more than likely will
be hard for her at first, so be
considerate of that.
Last, if it turns out you aren't pregnant,
then the best thing you should probably do
is get on the pill. This way, you won't
be ashamed to have to tell your mom of an
unexpected pregnancy, since you said you
are scared of what she will think of you.
Just hang in there, and I hope you get the
answer you want! But, go get a test
asap!!!
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seksiHily
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Posted: 09-05-05 12:41pm
Ok this sounds realllly health forum, but
if you don't have the courage to go buy a
test, how are you going to have the
courage to have a baby, one you so want?
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Brads Girl
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Thanks Posted: 09-06-05 20:15pm
Thank you!
Its not so much that I didn't have the
courage to get the pregnancy. Test I just
didn't know if I would necessarily be able
to except the result, as if yes I would be
sort of okay as I really love this guy and
he is going to be my husband, and if no I
sort of want to have a family with this
guy. If that makes since!
Result is yes!
Not sure how to tell him nor my mom!
He will be happy, as he wants children mom
might be a bit upset!
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Happiness03
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Posted: 09-06-05 21:06pm
Oh, congrats! I am so happy for you!
Just be calm and like I said before, you
should expect your mom to get upset. Just
keep your chin up, you will be fine!
Keep us posted :)
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Brads Girl
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Just Another Question Posted: 09-07-05 17:15pm
What is the possibility of me having
twins?
As my grandmother is a twin, and my fiance
is also a twin!
Just wondering if it is most likely that I
will be having twins!
It's a good chance that you'll have twins,
especially since it runs in your family
and his aswell.
I'm only 17 and i'm 5 months pregnant. I
told my mom I suspected it, and she went
out and bought a test for me and we took
it together. She was worried at first,
but now she is a big part of the babies
life already and it's not even born yet.
You'd be really surprised sometimes of how
you're parents take it.
Congrats!
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seksiHily
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Posted: 09-08-05 09:35am
Usually twins skip one generation .
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 09-08-05 12:56pm
I thought that was an old wife tale?
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Brads Girl
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Just to Say Thanks Posted: 09-08-05 15:29pm
Thanks everyone who gave me advice:)
still have not told my mother or him
yet!
Will wait till I get them together!
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