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cinderella
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How to Start Having Annal Sex???
Posted: 09-05-05 12:08pm
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Hi :!:....My b/f and I like to try
different things when it comes to sex
....And he wants to have annal sex w/ me,
actually we already try the out but it as
a health related!...Anyways I would like
to get some advice ...How can I start
having annal sex w/o feeling too much pain
:( :?:
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bebe123
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Posted: 09-05-05 21:01pm
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I've neva had sex but my freind says to
have anal sex you should always use a
condom because its hurts more doing it raw
so try a condom and if it hurts tell him
to wear more then one, or maybe your just
not use to it and probably wont hurt the
second time, hope I helped :)
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cinderella
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Hi
Posted: 09-06-05 10:22am
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| bebe123
wrote: | | i've neva had sex but my
freind says to have anal sex you should
always use a condom because its hurts more
doing it raw so try a condom and if it
hurts tell him to wear more then one, or
maybe your just not use to it and probably
wont hurt the second time, hope I helped
:) |
thanks for the advice but I already tried
like 2 or 3 times & it doesn't hurt
when he's getting it but when he's halfway
in that's when it hurts....I haven't try a
comdom but maybe I should
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samy444
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Posted: 09-06-05 12:55pm
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Actually in my opinion you shouldnt be
trying anal in the first place, it is not
normal and it has lot of side effects, and
remember that it is only a man pleasure ,
so I advice to be selfish in that one, and
dont sacrify your health for the pleasure
of other person, nothing will happen to
him , it is only you
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kkkaaayyyy
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Posted: 09-06-05 13:45pm
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I don't agree that it is only a man
pleasure. Anal sex can be very
pleasureable if you know what your doing.
Once your man hits that certain spot,
it's the most intense orgasm. Theres a
certain spot in there that makes you
change your mind about doing it anal.
I'm tellin ya. Maybe you should try it.
Last edited by kkkaaayyyy on 09-07-05 13:28pm; edited 1 time in total
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samy444
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Posted: 09-07-05 12:47pm
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Sorry I didnt mention but I am a guy, and
as far as I know the g-spot is not
anywhere in the anal path, it is somewhere
in the top of the vaginal path, so if you
are getting orgasms from anal it is not
due to hitting g-spot it is may be that
you like the idea of anal itself and enjoy
the pain it may cause (when you start
doing it)....
But this still not change the fact that
it is not a healthy practice , just
imagine yourself after a lot of anal sex
you cant control the "stole activity"
and your underwear has always the sign of
your sh*t, it is not hygeinic and it is
gross, and this is only a simple side
effect of a lot of other well known side
effects
my opinion
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TheGoodStuff89
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Posted: 09-07-05 13:17pm
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Try using a condom and lube.It makes it
much easier.. Oh and samy444 im sorry but
it doesnt become loose over time after
having anal. ;)
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kkkaaayyyy
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Posted: 09-07-05 13:25pm
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| samy444
wrote: | sorry I didnt mention but I
am a guy, and as far as I know the g-spot
is not anywhere in the anal path, it is
somewhere in the top of the vaginal path,
so if you are getting orgasms from anal it
is not due to hitting g-spot it is may be
that you like the idea of anal itself and
enjoy the pain it may cause (when you
start doing it)....
But this still not change the fact that
it is not a healthy practice , just
imagine yourself after a lot of anal sex
you cant control the "stole activity"
and your underwear has always the sign of
your sh*t, it is not hygeinic and it is
gross, and this is only a simple side
effect of a lot of other well known side
effects
my opinion |
well I know there is a spot in the anus
that a man does hit, and it does induce a
orgasm that is unreal. And with my
opinion, i've done it once time and I dont
appriciate you teling me that I like the
effect of it hurting when you dont know
what your talking about.. I've read alot
about it, and your opinion is very graphic
and saying it's gross is your opinion and
I beleive should be kept to yourself.
Some people do enjoy this and I think it's
offensive. Anyways, there are side
effects of doing anal, but I beleive it
could be a good experience to try every
once and while. And plus were trying to
help cinderella, not tell her your opinion
on how you dont like it.
:)
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Nicknack
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Posted: 09-07-05 13:42pm
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Eww can't believe you girls want to have
anal sex I can see having oral sex
sometimes but other then oral sex and
vaginal sex that's all me and my husband
would ever do. That's nasty.
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samy444
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Posted: 09-07-05 14:10pm
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Kkkaaayyy.....I am sorry to say but I
think you are the one who doesnt know what
you are talking about, and I am sorry to
say also that a spot in the anus is just a
boll sh*t, I dont mind (or care) if you
enjoy anal, but just dont say crap, and I
again dont care if you find me offensive
when I say facts, you didnt even
understand what I am refering to when I
said gross.....
And about helping cinderella, I think I am
the one who is really helping her by
advicing her to look at all the sides of
the issue not only the pleasure side of
it, because if you really care to help
someone by advice you will advice him with
what you think is good for him/her, and
about keeping my opinion to myself is a
stupid thing to say because the main aim
of the board is to share different
opinions and thought (even if it is not
correct)......
So an advise for you now
kkkaaayyy......Think before you write
good luck hun
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Nicknack
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Posted: 09-07-05 14:18pm
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Samy444 who are you talking to?
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samy444
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Posted: 09-07-05 14:19pm
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My last post was for kkaaayyy
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Nicknack
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Posted: 09-07-05 14:19pm
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Also whoever said to maybe use more then
one condom was wrong you hsould never use
more then one condom at a time because
then it will come off and not work.
People can get diseases thru anal sex
where do you think aids came from?
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samy444
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Posted: 09-07-05 14:26pm
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Nicknack......
I am happy to find someone like you who
think in a normal way.......
For me as a guy, may be it is pleasureable
for me to do it anal, but if I really love
my girl I will never do something for her
which have a potential of damaging
something in her ........
But just there are some people in this
board who doesnt have a spot in their anus
, instead they have their brain sitting
there......
Cheers
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guacamolly
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Posted: 09-07-05 14:49pm
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I find it disturbing that a women's sexual
health forum could be turned into grounds
for a debate.
Personally, my fiance and I enjoy anal--on
occasion, and briefly. My advice is to
first be sure it is really something you
want to do. Some girls just don't like
it, or it feels weird, and that's
completely okay.
After you've decided for sure, wearing a
small butt plug for a few hours can loosen
you up and make the pain greatly lessened;
also be sure to use lots of lube, and go
very slow in the beginning. Good luck!
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Jazzy36
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Posted: 09-07-05 15:03pm
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My man and I do it all the time..It really
hurts when he puts it in but after a
minute of so it kind of glides in...It
takes getting used to. I sacrifice a
little pain for his pleasure. Besides, im
30 wks pregnant and this position is ideal
anyway because of my growing belly. Even
more, it feels good after a while. Im
happy when he's happy! Lube helps, but
for the most part, hang in there. But if
u honestly think it's unbearable, let him
know.
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Nicknack
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Posted: 09-07-05 15:04pm
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I ain't turning this into a debate i'm
just stating my own opinion that I think
anal sex is disguisting and is something I
would never want to do or even try.
Anal sex is usually what people do or so I
heard and I think it's filthy for anyone
to even think about trying that.
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kkkaaayyyy
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Posted: 09-07-05 15:54pm
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Me neaither, im saying that this post is
to help a woman start to have anal sex,
not to make her feel dirty by wanting to
try and also disrespecting the sexual
preference of others is wrong.
Last edited by kkkaaayyyy on 09-08-05 08:08am; edited 1 time in total
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TheGoodStuff89
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Posted: 09-07-05 16:07pm
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What's wrong with anal sex.Some people
seem to enjoy it.If your into it then more
power to you.-your opinion of it being
gross and disgusting wasn't asked for.Why
don't you stick to the topic of the
post.She asked for a way for making anal
easier.. If she would have asked what do
you think about anal sex then I would have
actually enjoyed reading your worthless
post.
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~baby~g~
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Posted: 09-07-05 17:03pm
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I agree with samy444..I think it's really
digusting & I would never do it..No
matter how much my bf wants to!
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