Need some advise as to how to best end a
relationship. Here is some back ground:
about 18 months ago I split up from my
wife of 18 month's who I had been with for
around 8 years, this was not a good time
for me as I didn't really understand why
we had split up but I got over it and
started living my life again, after six
month's I met my current girlfriend, I
moved in with her after about 6 month's
everything was going really well and felt
really lucky to have had a great
relationship with my wife and it
un-fortunatley ending to then find another
wonderful girl, life was good.
Can you guess what happens next? That's
right my wife decides that she has made a
mistake and wants to make another go of
things, which casts doubt over things with
me and my girlfriend and I end up moving
out for a couple of weeks, eventually I
decide that I should stand by my promises
to my girlfriend (being that I said I
would not go back to my wife), but ever
since I can't help but doubt my decision,
I have come to a point where I don't
really want to be with my girlfriend
anymore and not because of my wife, but
because I don't want to be with anyone at
the moment I am really confused and just
want to enjoy my life with my friends and
with out the pressures of a girlfriend,
but I feel so bad about hurting someone
who has stood by me through all this, I
know I should end the relationship but
don't know how? I want to make things as
painless for my girlfriend as I can.
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soulman
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Posts: 1 Location: England
Posted: 09-06-05 16:18pm
I'm afraid there is no easy way to end
your relationship, the only thing you can
do is to sit down with your g/f and tell
her the truth, exactly as you have
explained it on here, she will still be
hurt, but at least she will respect the
fact you have been honest with her, I know
this doesn't really help, but as I said
there is no easy way
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force9
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2005 Posts: 4 Location: England
Your Wife Posted: 09-07-05 05:32am
Listen to beautiful south - I need a
little time.
I've been hit with this many times. "i'm
not sure if this is what I want, it's easy
for you, I need a little time"
don't go near her. She's got nothing
better, your the fall guy. And boy, will
you fall.
And if your anything like I was.. Don't
even go out for a chat with her. She will
play on your feelings and trap you back
into her web.
The other girl? Sounds like you were not
over the wife. Poor girl, dumb you.
