My bf and I have been trying for a baby
for the last nine months. In december I
came off the microgynon pill after four
years.
Im getting really down as it feels so
right to have a baby, its perfect. But I
just cant preg,
what am I doing wrong?
Xx :cry:
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beccaliz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2003 Posts: 119 Location: OC, cali
Nothing Wrong Posted: 09-06-05 11:56am
Try not to use the word wrong, it'll make
you feel worse. My husband and I tried
to get pregnant after my miscarriage for 9
months before I decided to go back to
school and now we are trying again.
There are several things I know worked
against us.
1. My emotional state was like a roller
coaster.
2. We were drinking a lot to dull the
pain. Drinking really messes up ttc.
3. Because of the drinking my fertility
signs were way off so we probably didn't
time it right.
On every board that talks about this I put
in my 2 cents... Quit drinking while ttc
and until after you nurse. Even a little
can screw you over if you have even
marginally low fertility. Even for me.
And now smoking or drugs, esp for the man,
it can mess up sperm count.
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nietu2
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Aug 2005 Posts: 17 Location: home
Trying to Get Preg. Posted: 09-06-05 14:10pm
Well maybe your just putting too much
stress on you self by tyring to get preg.
Pregnancy cause for patience. You and
your mate need to focus on eachother.
When you make love and not think of it as
your trying to get pregnant your hormones
will act properly. When your trying to
have a baby and your not enjoying the
love making your taking away from your
hormone level. You need to not plan it,
make love, and just know it will happen
soon. :)
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beccaliz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2003 Posts: 119 Location: OC, cali
Nietu Posted: 09-06-05 14:20pm
Actually I agree w/ you. I wasn't
thinking about that but it got to the
point we were baby making and not love
making... That is also very bad for your
marriage. Ask youself which you want
more, a baby or a good marriage.
