15 And Maybe Pregnant? Or Just Paranoid? Posted: 09-06-05 18:02pm
I'm 15, and last monday momentary
penetration occured between my boyfriend
and I without any protection. Not full
out sex, but enough to make me afraid that
i'm pregnant. Its happened twice since
then, which makes me even more worried.
He didn't come inside me any of the times,
but there could have been pre-ejaculate.
This morning I started feeling ill, and I
haven't felt better since. I've been
feeling a kind of ache in my stomach and
lower stomach downward, similar to cramps,
for two or three days, and ive had
diherrea at least twice within today. Ive
been headachey and also getting tired from
walking a lot easier than usual.
I want to know how early I can take a
pregnancy test of some sort, because i'm
dying to know. I've got too much in my
life right now to lose to having a child.
I could never bring myself to have an
abortion or give up my child for adoption
I dont think, and the thought of my
parents knowing i'd even thought of having
sex sickens me. So if I really am or
could be pregnant, then I want to have as
much time as I can to prepare to alter my
life and let my parents know.
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young_mom
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Sep 2005 Posts: 69 Location: Canada
Posted: 09-06-05 18:25pm
Hey, i'm 16 and 5weeks... I know how you
feel... Have you been to the drs yet?
Because you really should go... And have
everything looked at and tell him how you
are feeling and that you think you might
be... And about your parents, if you are
pregnant, just come out and tell them...
No hiding it because then they will think
something just come out and tell them...
It would be the best way to go... Don't
hide anything when you find out... And
just come and tell them... Do you work?
Go to school? Becasue if you are that is
going to be very hard... Trust me...Well
anything else jsut ask...
Ashley
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Lemons
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Sep 2005 Posts: 3
Posted: 09-06-05 18:39pm
Thanks ashley
no, i'm really not wanting to go to the
doctor's. I really can't tell my parents
or my relationship with them would be
ruined, and what if this was all just in
my head? Then they would never let me see
my boyfriend again, and he would go to
jail. (hes 17 and since i'm 15 its
considered statutory rape in michigan) and
i'm 100% sure that I want to marry him.
(even though i'm very young to be saying
that, and I understand i'm too young for
sex and it shouldnt have happened. I
really wish it didn't)
also, for all my life i've hidden a lot of
my non-innocence from them, so if they
found out this all at once, they might
practically disown me. I'm not sure how
they'd react, but I know it'd be very very
negative.
I'm a freshman/sophomore in high school
right now because I was out of school last
year due to depression, but i'm taking all
sophomore classes, and one junior class.
