Recent Loss of Sexual Desire.....help!!! Posted: 09-06-05 19:36pm
Hi,
i'm 19 years old, and i've been with my
girlfriend for almost a year now. I'm
completely in love with her, and we have
always had a great sex life. This summer
alone it seemed like we had sex every
chance we got, and it was always
satisfying.
I recently moved back up to college for
the new semester, and she's back home.
She came to visit last weekend, and the
first night, we had amazing sex.
However, the next day, I couldn't keep it
up, and the final night, I couldn't get it
up at all. This destroyed me.
We're trying to work through it, but it's
hard since it's a long distance
relationship. However, now it seems that
nothing turns me on. I don't get
erections as frequently as I used to and I
can't masturbate most of the time. I
don't know if this is temporary due to
stress, or what, but it really is
affecting me. I want things to return to
normal, but I don't know what is going on.
I have smoked marijuana off and on for a
little less than a year now, and a lot of
it during the past summer. But because
of this whole situation, I am quitting for
good.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to
what the problem could be? Is it stress?
Is it the marijuana in my system?
(although it has never affected me before,
actually enhanced the experience) should
I just give it time?
Thanks for all the help.
-collegeguy
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ProZackMI
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Joined: 26 Aug 2005 Posts: 64
Re: Recent Loss of Sexual Desire.....help!!! Posted: 09-06-05 19:42pm
collegeguy85
wrote:
hi,
i'm 19 years old, and i've been with my
girlfriend for almost a year now. I'm
completely in love with her, and we have
always had a great sex life. This
summer alone it seemed like we had sex
every chance we got, and it was always
satisfying.
I recently moved back up to college for
the new semester, and she's back home.
She came to visit last weekend, and the
first night, we had amazing sex.
However, the next day, I couldn't keep it
up, and the final night, I couldn't get it
up at all. This destroyed me.
We're trying to work through it, but it's
hard since it's a long distance
relationship. However, now it seems
that nothing turns me on. I don't get
erections as frequently as I used to and I
can't masturbate most of the time. I
don't know if this is temporary due to
stress, or what, but it really is
affecting me. I want things to return
to normal, but I don't know what is going
on. I have smoked marijuana off and on
for a little less than a year now, and a
lot of it during the past summer. But
because of this whole situation, I am
quitting for good.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to
what the problem could be? Is it
stress? Is it the marijuana in my
system? (although it has never affected
me before, actually enhanced the
experience) should I just give it time?
Thanks for all the help.
-collegeguy
dude, first give it some time. Chill
out for a few nights and then try
masturbating. If you can get it up and
keep it up, you are okay; it's just
stress. If you can't achieve or
maintain an erection, it could still be
stress, or it could be something physical.
Always rule out the emotional first.
Has anything changed in your life, other
than going back to school, recently?
Financial problems? Too many classes?
Change your major? Fight with parents?
Any physical problems? Are you on any
medications? Any recent trauma to your
genitals?
Try relaxing and focusing on other things.
See if you can get hard by yourself,
while masturbating to porn or something.
If you can get it up, you're fine -- just
stressed. Rent a porno or look at your
favourite porn sites. You should be able
to get it up with no problem. If that
doesn't work, it could be side effects of
medications, too much stress, or possibly
a physical problem. Message me if you
have any questions.
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cd998776
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Re: Recent Loss of Sexual Desire.....help!!! Posted: 09-07-05 15:01pm
prozackmi
wrote:
collegeguy85
wrote:
hi,
i'm 19 years old, and i've been with my
girlfriend for almost a year now. I'm
completely in love with her, and we have
always had a great sex life. This
summer alone it seemed like we had sex
every chance we got, and it was always
satisfying.
I recently moved back up to college for
the new semester, and she's back home.
She came to visit last weekend, and the
first night, we had amazing sex.
However, the next day, I couldn't keep it
up, and the final night, I couldn't get it
up at all. This destroyed me.
We're trying to work through it, but it's
hard since it's a long distance
relationship. However, now it seems
that nothing turns me on. I don't get
erections as frequently as I used to and I
can't masturbate most of the time. I
don't know if this is temporary due to
stress, or what, but it really is
affecting me. I want things to return
to normal, but I don't know what is going
on. I have smoked marijuana off and on
for a little less than a year now, and a
lot of it during the past summer. But
because of this whole situation, I am
quitting for good.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to
what the problem could be? Is it
stress? Is it the marijuana in my
system? (although it has never
affected me before, actually enhanced the
experience) should I just give it time?
Thanks for all the help.
-collegeguy
dude, first give it some time. Chill
out for a few nights and then try
masturbating. If you can get it up and
keep it up, you are okay; it's just
stress. If you can't achieve or
maintain an erection, it could still be
stress, or it could be something physical.
Always rule out the emotional first.
