Joined: 09 Sep 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Nr Bristol, UK.
I Miss My Hubby So Much... Posted: 09-09-05 10:25am
Helloo...
Im tigger and ive just
joined this forum... Im a 40 yr old widow
have been for 4 yrs now and still miss my
hubby every day... Is there any 1 ealse
out there who feels the same as me? If
there is? Plzzz feel free to email me
sumtime... Would be nice to know im not
on my own in the way that I feel.....
Hope to hear from sum1 sooon
tigger.....
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cathlost
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2005 Posts: 1 Location: Brisbane Australia
Re: I Miss My Hubby Sooooo Much... Posted: 09-23-05 06:50am
miss_tigggger
wrote:
helloo...
Im tigger and ive just
joined this forum... Im a 40 yr old
widow have been for 4 yrs now and still
miss my hubby every day... Is there any
1 ealse out there who feels the same as
me? If there is? Plzzz feel free to
email me sumtime... Would be nice to
know im not on my own in the way that I
feel.....
Hope to hear from sum1 sooon
tigger.....
hi I am cath I turn 40 next week & I
lost my husband 5 1/2 yrs ago & I
fell the same as you, & I have no one
that I can talk to that knows what I am
felling, if I try & talk to my friends
I am told that I should be over it by now,
get on with it, time heals but how much
time it still hurts so much, tigger you
are not the only one..
Cath
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yourazlmt
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Dec 2003 Posts: 11 Location: Mesa, Arizona
I'm Praying For You Posted: 11-22-05 01:03am
Hi there!
My name is tracy. I can't relate to
anyone in this forum but, the lord lead me
to post a reply. I just remarried last
year (after a divorce) and my biggest fear
is to lose my children or husband. I
especially obsess over the thought of
losing my husband b/c he is the biggest
part of my life. The one I feel keeps me
going. So, I guess what I wanted to do
is to let you know that even though I
don't know how you feel, I hurt for you.
I don't know who you are but, I will pray
for your comfort and peace tonight! I
have had a few friends and family that
have lost their spouse I will reassure
you that you are not alone! There are
sooo many broken hearts right now b/c they
lost the love of their lives. Rest
assured that if your husband had a
relationship with jesus christ, he is in
his arms this very moment. Let's face
it, we wouldn't want to bring him back
from that if we had the ability would we?
I just want you to know that the lord
knows your pain and he hurts with you
(even if no one else in the did). But,
the fact remains that you are surrounded
with people that have gone through and are
going through what you have and it may be
up to you to be their shoulder to cry on
and an empathetic ear to listen. As you
reach out for someone right now, remember
that the lord is by your side always and
that someone may be reaching for you. :)
with love and prayers for peace and
comfort, tracy
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jpal
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Dec 2005 Posts: 2 Location: new york
Posted: 12-31-05 18:23pm
Hi my name is patty I lost my husband on
dec. 2nd this year and I turned 40 on dec
18th. I know exactly how you feel. Right
after I was told my husband died I thought
to myself....I am a widow at 40. I have
two little girls 5 and 9. My husband went
in for gastric bypass and had many
complications. If anyone has had a loss
after gastric bypass please let me know.
Please feel free to email me.
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smiliethaos
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Jan 2006 Posts: 1
Missing My Husband..... Too. Posted: 01-14-06 12:25pm
I just lost my husband of 13 years in
2005. I know how you gals feel. It's
hard sometimes to face the world alone.
It's not easy. I missed my husban so much
that I think he's coming back one day. I
just can't seem to except the truth. I
feel like I live in two different life.
One is with my husband and kids. The
other is without him. I get every
confused all the time. I sometime tell
myself how long is this going to last.
But I guess only time can tell me. I know
all of you missed your husband too.
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Crafter
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Jan 2006 Posts: 5 Location: California
Loss Posted: 01-31-06 06:20am
Hi,
my name is genevieve and I also lost my
husband (in 1999). One of the only
things that makes me happy is that I was
able to give him the only son he always
wanted. Although he died when our son
was only 2 1/2 months old. I know that
he's passed on to better things, with the
lord, but there are so many times that I
prefer that he was here with us still
(selfish?). At times when we (children
and me) go out to the store and see people
and places we used to visit together, or
even couples; that makes me miss him even
more. So you are not alone. Just take
it one day at a time and do not let anyone
else tell you when you should be over
"it", because if they really knew what we
feel, went, and go through, they would
simply shut their mouth and be
understanding about it. Just be glad
that your husband knew that he was loved
by you. That is something that helps me
alot.
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klf1942
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2006 Posts: 6 Location: Michigan
Posted: 06-11-06 22:21pm
Hi my name is kay and I lost my husband in
1999. We were married 36 years and he was
only 56. You never get over it, it just
gets a little easier to deal with every
day. One day at a time. I have lived
alone now for 7 years. It's not easy.
Sometimes I think I see him in a store or
in a semi driving. That's what he did for
30 years. He was retired for 1 year when
he passed. We had so many plans for
retirement that never happened. I still
cry for him and miss him terribly. I am
very lucky though, I have 4 wonderful
adult children that make life bearable. I
too hate being a widow, but, I deal with
it. More so now, than in the beginning.
I promise you it will get easier.
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lvnmycairn
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jan 2007 Posts: 4
Husband Posted: 01-12-07 12:09pm
Hi I also lost my husband suddenly and it
will be three years next month. He died
the day before valentines day which makes
that day very difficult for me. I to
miss him very much and somedays can't do
anything but sit and think of him. I
also find myself crying alot over stupid
commercials or when things happen on tv
like someone wins on deal or no deal. It
is weird because before he died I never
cried much at all now I find myself crying
whenever something nice happens to
someone. Most days are good though and I
find myself functioning great. There is
never a day that goes by that I don't
think of him and something doesn't remind
me of him. I usually get through the
days when I am depressed by remembering
the good times I had with him and
cherishing those memories. Right now I
am out of work so the days seem longer and
I am missing him more. I find if you
keep busy it helps alot.
