When I was with this guy things were perfect. Until we would get into these fights and he would push me or put me down. I was always such a strong girl who wouldnt take sh*t from anyone, but after a while I became like his slave, I even remember a time that he wanted to have sex but I didnt because I was sore down there but he told me it will be ok and he had sex with me while I layed there and cried, I know he could hear me but all he would say was im almost done ur ok. I cant tell u why I didnt just push him off me but I know I didnt want to upset him so I just took it. Then about a month ago we got into a fight (nothing big) and he flipped out on me and beat me up! It was horrible I left his house that night bleeding and woke up cut up and bruised. He has gotten violent with me b4 but never this bad so I went to the police. They threw him in jail (his mommy bailed him out). Anyway the reason im writing this question is because now he still calls me and tells me how sorry he is and how much he needs me and wants me back. He even took all his money out of the bank and bought me a $3,000 ring. I feel bad for him because he is hurting and all I want to do is forgive him, but I know thats not right. I know I should just let him go but I dont know how. So if anyone else is going through somthing like this or just has some advice let me know, it would be nice to get some support from someone. Im sorry this is kinda long, thanx.